I havent been the best boyfriend in the world. But i want to be. We started going out two years ago. I chased her for a year and a half. We dated for two years. I love her. i can actually say that. It took a month and three days of going out before we kissed.. i tried before but she wouldnt. it was okay with me. it was worth it. I want to take her to the movies, on a picnic, tell her how beautiful she is, id even sell my car to take her to disney again, one of our most fond memories. Id do anything for her.. even hurt myself.. thats what scares me.. She kissed this new guy the day we broke up. She now dates him. We did stuff..(not had sex, but pretty much everything else) and it kills me to think about them doing anything.. we have never done that stuff with anyone else.. and i hold that like it was us, and it was only going to ever be us doing that together. sacred i guess one could say. now i dont know what to do.. ive cried begged. got on my kness and screamed i love you. What now?
2006-09-20 11:53:26 · 14 answers · asked by spriggan6464 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well I can tell you that if the begging and crying apologies didn’t work the day after... DONT do it anymore. There is a fine line between remorse and pathetic... (From a girls opinion) And I was pretty popular in high school. It does sound like you’re still in high school?. So first don't say you’d hurt your self either that makes you sound psycho! No girls want a depressed guy or someone we have to save!
Now lets work on getting her back!
1. Give the cool down space! If you weren’t being the best boyfriend, show her you have changed by being nicer to everyone! It subtly shows a change in character without it looking like you have something to prove to her! Be the kind of person other people want to be with, NICE
2. After a good little cool down period of a couple weeks in which this other guy probably already screwed up and lost her? Talk to her like a man. Do NOT tell her you want her back... But that you’re sorry and you care about her happiness. Leave it simple and add ur own stuff! But simple no begging!
3. Than continue with #1 above and shell be back with you in no time!! Sometimes we (girls) do things to wake up the one man we love by the only way we see possible! Even if it is resort to immature jealousy games... GOOD LUCK!!
2006-09-20 12:07:49 · answer #1 · answered by Trisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you now i once had a guy that was just like you i guess that he might have done anything for me he chase me around he waited long before our first kiss i had love his but still at the same time after awhile i found him very annoying because he thought that he was treating me right when he wasn't and then he turn out to be the one who dumped me. ha ha the point is somethings are meant to happen welcome to the world of heart break every thing is for a reason. maybe you were a bad bf or a good bf to her the point is she still left you so heel your broken heart and get back out there to find someone to love you.
2006-09-20 12:07:43 · answer #2 · answered by babi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 08:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by kreitzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go find someone else. She is not ready for someone so great as you are. Don't make a fool of yourself ever to a girl or anyone else. She left you. Let her see you with someone else, but don't use a girl for that reason, take another girl out and she will be glad to enjoy your company.
Her loss.
2006-09-20 11:59:45 · answer #4 · answered by Momwithaheart 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I know how it feels, heavy heart and butterflies in stomach. The way I got over it is to hang more with my friends and family. Once I felt alright and made sure the sight of her and the other didn't bother me, I moved on and found someone else. Best thing I ever did. Unfortunately sometime she may want to come back to you after she sees you all happy with someone else and it's not going so hot for her, but please, please, please don't take her back.
Take care and give it time to slowly work its way out of your system..
Good Luck.
2006-09-20 12:02:41 · answer #5 · answered by This, That & such 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she moved on already and there is no way of being with someone that doesn;t want to be with you that is not fair to you or your heart so let time heal your wound and someday you will be with someone that will love you back for years to come so hang in there
2006-09-20 11:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
FACE IT HONS HY GAY PARTNERS STEEVIIE AND DAVIIE HONS, YOU GOT DUMPEDD WE KNOW IT HURTS, HEY IT HAPENSS IN LIFE BITTTER PILL. SHE HAS MOVED ON DOWNE THAT LONESOME HIGHWAY OF LIFE AND MOVED ONN DO THE SAME MOVE ON DOWNE THAT LONESOME HIGHWAY OF LIFE,. THERES SOMETHING YOU COULDENT GIVE HER SHE JUST WANTED MORE, AND THATS ITT, ITS OVER WITH, DONE!! DONT TAKE HER BACK BECAUSE YOU HAVE BAD TIMES DEALING WITH HER BEING WITH ANOTHER BOY HONS. FACE ITT YOU WIL GO THIS MORE THAN OUNCE IN YOUR LIFE WE HAVE, THASTS WHY WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR THE LAST 5 YEARS GOT TIRED OF THE B,S AND COMMITEED OURSELVES IN THIS GAY RELATIONSHIPP, AND WE ARE SOLIDD ROCK SOLIDD,, SOME DAY YOU WILL FIND MISS RIGHT THE LAST ONE WASENT!! MOVE OON PACK SUIT CASE AND HIT THE HIGHWAYS!!
2006-09-20 12:01:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say it, but you need to move on.
It's important to distance yourself from her right now.
Hang out with your friends and people who care about you.
Do things you enjoy (that don't involve her).
Believe it or not, you can get over this.
2006-09-20 11:57:14 · answer #8 · answered by Emily 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey you will fall in Love about 10 more times...pray
2006-09-20 11:59:10 · answer #9 · answered by dreamy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really do feel for you sweetie, this may sound harsh but the only thing that you can really do now is move on.
2006-09-20 12:01:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋