My husband is 14 yrs younger, I keep waiting for him to "catch up" if you will, and for a lack of better words. After 5 yrs, I am about to throw in the towel....but then I have always dated younger men....I just look young for my age, I guess...lol..let me know what you think.
2006-09-20 11:53:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I find they are good for fun but not much else.
2006-09-20 11:57:52 · answer #1 · answered by U dont know me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will try to put this as simple as possible.
Please realize that he will not "catch up".
You are light years ahead of him both emotionally and mentally.
It would be like wanting an 10 year old understand the life of a 24 year old.
The child will be the child.
The hope or expectation of him being more will not materialize.
It will be too late in your life if it does happen.
Older men are not all alike.
Each person is her or his own individual.
2006-09-20 12:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, biologically it's just not a good idea... Women age faster, and do not have as much time in a reproductive sense. I would never want to be with a guy who made me look old.
2006-09-20 12:21:01 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy Ego 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too date men much younger than me, but I wouldnt dream of marrying one!
It would be unfair on both of us, he wont 'catch up' he'll always be 14yrs behind you in life experiences and goals
2006-09-20 22:03:58 · answer #4 · answered by livachic2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh jeez i wish you do no longer pass into 40s....... i will sense what you propose approximately older women, i'm 19 and would desire to discover women 33 MAX captivating yet no longer older than that... extra energizing the extra effective.
2016-10-01 04:48:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 5 years older than my husband, works great for us.
2006-09-20 12:22:56 · answer #6 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no problem,that is if you like being with immature guys. You must have a mothering complex. All they are good for is a boy-toy.
2006-09-20 12:51:24 · answer #7 · answered by tracytracyspikes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dated and was engaged to a younger man for a while and i can say it was fun but we had nothin in common except sex and i would ratherhave a man my age and i married a man my age.
2006-09-20 13:50:50 · answer #8 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No problem with younger men. Done it myself. You just have to remember - all men are babies! Hang in there! Just "Mother" him! haha
2006-09-20 11:56:03 · answer #9 · answered by Blond Logic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's fine. Younger guys are more fun and give you more variety.
2006-09-20 12:04:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋