theres this snobby woman in our congregation who has been rude and nasty to me ever since we were 12 or 13. shes just been plain nasty to me and my family and now we are both 21 and shes still at it. Well, yesterday she went out of her way to be nasty towards me again, this time getting her fiancee involved.. Its been about 9 years of this and me not doing anything back to her because its the christian thing to do.. im sick of it.. yesterday she pushed it too far.. I need revenge ideas quick. also, shes getting married next year, any ideas on how i can ruin it? i know it sounds heartless, but ive been putting up with her nastiness towards me and my family for years.. I want to really get her back..shes not a friend of mine, shes that snobby girl who made ur life heck.. what would you do???
2006-09-20 11:40:34 · 13 answers · asked by Christina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I can truly understand your predicament but you can not let this person have the power! Don't let her make you stoop to her level. Just smile at her every time you see her. If you have to talk to her say something like 'God is good'. These kind of people get off on how much they upset you. They like to press your buttons. You have to show that you're stronger than she is, don't let her take your power-you control your situation. It may sound crazy, but you really need to pray for her and her fiance. As a church going woman, you know who revenge belongs to. Leave it in His hands.
2006-09-20 14:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by stormywthr64 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is the best revenge, This woman has taught you how not to behave, Send her a letter thanking her not for being a good example, but for allowing you to see and experience the very worst qualities in a person. And this life long lesson has made you a far better person. You will be right and you will get your revenge, but she will never get what you mean, You are the only one that will get satisfaction,
2006-09-20 11:58:27 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let god take revenge. It will only make you feel bad if you do it your self. He knows what to do. I know what you are saying because i've wanted revenge at one time or another for some really bad things that have been done to me. Sometimes it's hard because on a daily basis i have to forgive people in this town. I am really alone. I have been laughed at for a very long time because people have been steeling from me and posing as me for many years. Everyone it seems like knows and nobody it seem like nobody has helped. Keep your chin up because god is faithful even if it doesn't seem like it. He does not lie. Yes there are people in church that lie and use god to gain wealth for themselves but there is a consequence. I know that is not your situation and I'm not quite sure why she is nasty to you. I know you already know this but pray really hard for this person. It says to pray for your enemies. People shouldn't try to see if another will forgive on a continuous basis either I know what the bible says but to do it on purpose has to be a sin. I'll also pray for you for guidance.
2006-09-20 12:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by Becky M 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
id phone the police everytime she opened her gob ..tell them your getting verbal abuse and keep doing it, she'll hate the police at her house all the time or be non christian and do eveil stuff but im sure thats not you .....get someone else to put her in her place but id go for the first option ..im going thru it now and its along process keep at it, the slightest thing phone ...yeah she will probably loose her rag but thats good the worse she does the more you can do and the police ,she may very well get a fine or asbo.. take care
2006-09-20 11:50:02 · answer #4 · answered by chaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well The real story is...It's Not Your Fault she is living in the past..thats her problem and thats pretty childish if you ask me.God will get her back when its time and she'll get it pretty badly Well shes way too childish to hang out with..either be the responsible one and dont do anything..or be as bad as she is....shes just trying to make you mad..its ur decision.
2006-09-20 11:52:06 · answer #5 · answered by Haley Bailey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a Christian, you should know that God will get her back. You should just avoid and ignore her. What comes around goes around, dear and she will get hers. It may not be from you tomorrow, it may be from someone she doesn't even know today twenty years from now. Don't let her rent space in your head anymore, be the better person.
2006-09-20 11:46:20 · answer #6 · answered by Jenn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your Christian principles, ask yourself, what would Jesus do, and then drive her out of the temple with a whip like he did to the money changers. She has turned your Father's house into a Den of hate.
2006-09-20 11:45:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit on the end of the pew and step on the hem of her wedding dress as she walks by or call the florist or caterer a couple of days before the wedding and cancel.
2006-09-20 11:44:01 · answer #8 · answered by dropkickchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get back at her and make it good just for being a ***** to you and your family tell her hubby that she was cheating or get her home number and act like if your another woman and say your sleeping with her hubby
2006-09-20 11:45:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A fine Christian attitude ya have there girl!
2006-09-20 11:45:14 · answer #10 · answered by michaelsmaniacal 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋