im a virgin and i was wondering does it hurt when your..you know (hymen) tears ..it just sounds like it hurts by using the word tear..so ya please explain cause im scared
2006-09-20 11:40:00 · 12 answers · asked by love4gwen202 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
it hurts a little don't worry you still have time wait tell 18 please
2006-09-20 11:48:12 · answer #1 · answered by gw123456 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a thin layer of tissue that once a penis has done through it, it causes it to rupture or tear. You don't feel it, since being a virgin the vaginal walls are narrow and tight it will feel uncomfortable, but you should not feel the tearing In fact, you won't even know when it happens until you see a little blood spotting. It's normal.
2006-09-20 19:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by Doll eyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometime it doesn’t tear - it stretches… if it tears but it should not hurt - a painful way . Just kind of like a pinch... ummm… there are plenty of things that do not involve penetration…
Just wait till your really ready and be comfortable… know you r with the right person… be strong, consider discussing this issue with your doctor or someone at planned parenthood!
2006-09-20 18:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by string1dm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everygirls 1st time will be a lil painful but it will be the most remarkable thing you will go through and remeber.Your 2nd time migh be like that 2 but after it wont be as bad.dont worry youll be fine.It happens to everyone
2006-09-20 18:47:50 · answer #4 · answered by LIL_KIA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it hurts but nothing serious, at least not for me. Hopefully, you are not thinking of rushing into this to fast. You will bleed to that is normal. Your virginity is something you can't take back so seriously think on this before doing something not worth it! :)
2006-09-20 18:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by J. A. M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course losing your virginity is painful but it's not unbearable, I have heard of girls who have cried but they might just have been dramatic or had a guy with an over-average sized penis.. Anyway, I don't think you should be worried, once you are ready to lose it, you'll be fine. Good luckâ¥
2006-09-20 18:41:47 · answer #6 · answered by DiVenanzo™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't remember it hurting at all,Just some blood came out,Not a lot.Don't worry yourself to death.It is a very loving and passionate thing to do with some on you TRULY love.
2006-09-20 18:53:08 · answer #7 · answered by quietthoughts777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your fear is normal, when you don't have any experience about something, make you think too much without knowing how it make you feel. you need a good partner to calm you and must be patient and cool to make it easy and comfortable, before and during and after broke it. every woman has different experience, unique and especial, deb-ins on you and your partner, don't be scared, its your own experience, don't worry you will be fine.
2006-09-20 19:01:45 · answer #8 · answered by kiko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just going to feel presure, i think that you just have to relax and enjoy , the nervious are worst that the realy pain, use protection, that is very important, and be sure who is going to be the lucky one, just be sure that you want to do it, dont do it just becouse your friends already do it of wherever, if you are ready and you are in loved, go ahead, but take care of your body, you know, hiv etc. USE PROTECTION , very important. GOOD LUCK
2006-09-20 18:44:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it can hurt and maybe bleed cause the vaginal wall is opening up and the more sex you have the more looser it will get
2006-09-20 18:46:53 · answer #10 · answered by oceanlady580 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your gonna be sore and may bleed alittle but it will be ok. its just like, ouch. i broke mine when i fell on my bike when i was 9.
2006-09-20 18:43:13 · answer #11 · answered by crystalyn129 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋