She is mad at something that I've said, but I'm not sure what it is.
2006-09-20 11:26:03 · 13 answers · asked by teesee4444 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
never ask what wrong just ask how was your day,how ae you feeling,can i get you anything and soon she will talk but as long as what wrong she'll say nothing.
just try not to worry hug and kiss her and tell her you love her sit with her with your arms around her if she dont want that just sit and be queit with her. but just leave room for her to open up.
2006-09-20 12:03:18 · answer #1 · answered by sunrisedrifter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife has done the same thing many times. In my case I've asked what was wrong and she wouldn't tell. Later in the week she would blow up on me for no reason. Come to find out, she just wanted to stay mad and it would fester with her all week. I have had to work with her on this. If you have asked and she won't tell, it is up to her at this point to clear the air. I would go on after that like it doesn't bother you. When you do, she will give up. Women , not all of them, are strange in that aspect. They love to hold stuff in so they can be mad, just so they can make up with you.
2006-09-20 18:35:01 · answer #2 · answered by saelskies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how long ago it was... IF it was very recent... like 5 mins ago.. then leave her alone and give her time to figure it out for herself before she tell you about it. If it's like 3 days... a week ago.. then try to tell her stuff like her 'mood' (or whatever) is worrying you and that you want to help. Please tell you what it is so that the two of you can work on it together. You want some of the burden that she is holding. Then see what happens. if I doesn't work, then I'm sorry, but if it works.. just don't push. she will reveal more as she warms up to telling you more. Good luck.
2006-09-20 18:35:36 · answer #3 · answered by Valeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has been said that for every minute you are angry with someone, you lose sixty seconds of happiness that you can never get back. It just makes good sense to do everything you can to preserve the good will and intimacy of your marriage when conflict, anger, hurt feelings, and disagreements occur.If you truly love your partner, you will not want to rip him/her to shreds verbally, or to ignore or discount differing opinions and beliefs. You will want to do everything you can to insure that you have quality communication in your relationship and that you are communicating your caring, love, and respect to your spouse I hope this helps you a little.
2006-09-20 20:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have this problem also...push things back avoid talking about it. i think i can let it go...then days later it keeps buggin me so i finally talk about it with all the built up emotions. bad habbit. i know. it's hard for some women to speak up even when asked...and sometimes we don't want to make a big deal out of it and try to let it go or we know are spouse is having a rough week or is very busy so we try to wait for a more appropriat time to say...doesn't always work that away.
goodluck
2006-09-21 10:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by mrsgilleland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get close to her while in bed or at the kitchen table and open up right away.
Explain to her that if she can't tell you what you did that is bugging her, you'll never be able to apologize for it and not do it again. Tell her that communication is key success to happy marriage.
2006-09-20 18:29:03 · answer #6 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get her a card. Get the emotions and connection flowing with a loving card. Then leave it open for her to talk. Maybe put in the card something like......I love you and your my bestfriend, I am here for you when ever you need me and I am sorry if I ever hurt you, I hope I never do that again.
2006-09-21 01:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude I live with same person!
maybe it's being on Y!Answers too much
but I've found just give her space until she is ready
in the meanwhile do things you know she will appreciate and show 'good faith'
think about what it might be, and if you do know, are you willing to change...if not be ready for big fight
2006-09-20 18:28:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just say "Honey, I know something is bothering you. I respect your feelings and opinions. I saddens me to know something is bothering you and you don't want to share it with me." I feel as though I have done something wrong and can't imagine hurting you so much." So please lets talk this over and move on with our fantastic life we share together"
Best of luck to you
2006-09-20 18:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by young at heart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, I hate people who play games like that.
Tell her when she's ready to act like an adult and discuss what made her angry, you'll be there. Until then, ignore her.
2006-09-20 18:33:33 · answer #10 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋