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I don't know if this belongs in the beuty section, but whatever :)

Anyway my friend got called fat by this f-ing loser a few days ago, and shes really sensitive about that stuff, and i don't know what to do. She was crying after school, and i was thinking of calling her, but i don't know what to say, im not really good with these things. Should i take her to a movie or shopping. I hate seeing her upset, it makes me want to cry. I told her to not even listen to what that bastard said, but i know that doesn't work, i even offered to beat the sh*t out of the guy, but she said no, but i might still do it if she doesn't cheer up tommarow. Please help, and thanks in advance.

2006-09-20 10:51:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style Skin & Body

I told her she is beutiful, and i trully mean it. I can't believe she doesn't think that. But everytime i say that she just looks like she's about to cry. The person who called her fat is a really insecure, loser who thinks hes funny. Ahh! I want to kil him!

2006-09-20 11:03:28 · update #1

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As much as you would like to beat this crap out of this loser, you must think about what it will do if you did.......is it going to make your friend think shes not fat....nope...will it make her stop hurting and forget what happend.....nope...the only thing good coming out of this is that loser will get what he deserves, but not saying he will stop and it wont help your friend from hurting. And right now thats your number one thing to do is get her to be happy....so heres some advice...
Call her up and get over there or get her to come there, you need to talk to her face to face its better than over the phone. Than tell her about those guys in the past that liked her tell her that those guys wouldnt just say they liked you if they thought you were ugly, they know your pretty. And if you cant think of a guy that liked her, make it up, dont lie to much but say that theres so many guys that talk about you and say how pretty you are, even the ones that are so honest about everything about a girl so you know if they say your pretty they mean it. If she askes you who are these guys, try to find a few guys that you kinda know and that she doesnt know at all, so she wont just go up to them and ask them so let it be someone she wouldnt ask if it was true. Say that these guys are pigs and the rate girls all the time like they are nothing, they are honest but they hurt others which they shouldnt but they rated you a high, one said a eight and one even said a nine! And you would of said this before to her but you didnt think it was a big deal cause you didnt think you would have to tell her that she was pretty because its so obvious. The only reason people say things about other people...bad things are because they wish that they could be more like them and they see bad things about themselves so they try to make themselves feel better by putting others down. It really makes no sense but look at it like this....if you are pretty but you dont like your hair say or your somthing about your face you look at say brittany spears or other pretty girls on tv and you say somthing like she ugly or she needs a nose job or somthing bad , even if its not true. It just makes you feel better! So let her know that! Than give her a hug and say lets go shopping and see if yous cant find some hot babes to pick up, and show that loser you can have any man you want!

2006-09-20 11:15:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yeah, that's terrible. People are just stupid. If I were you, I would call her and try to make her feel better. If you're worried about what to say to her, just get her mind off of things and let it be known that it doesn't matter what other people think. People are just insecure about themselves and choose to talk about other people. Take her to a movie or shopping like you said. All she needs right now is a great friend like you to be there to get her mind off of this jerk! Good luck, sweetie!

2006-09-20 10:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Don't fight him you can get in trouble trust me. They are not afraid to lock a girl up. Just be there for your friend when she needs you. Try going to the mall and buying outfits or go get your nails done together

2006-09-20 10:57:50 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 · 1 0

i m good at this stuff i help ppl all the time, tell her its nothing 2 worry about and thats she is not a loser thats shes smart and funny and that hes the loser

2006-09-20 11:00:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

I think it's a matter of time, but it will help going out to the movies...make her think other things.

2006-09-20 10:55:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

the best thing is just to let her know that you care . . . rent one of her favorite movies and go to her house for an all-girls movie night . . something to help cheer her up . .

2006-09-20 11:01:20 · answer #6 · answered by ♥LoisLane♥ 4 · 1 0

The best thing you can do for her is just to be there. Let her know that if she needs anything you're there.

2006-09-20 10:54:35 · answer #7 · answered by jamieinreno 3 · 2 0

well b there of her n tel her that people r here 4 saying ******* things so **** them

2006-09-20 10:58:14 · answer #8 · answered by LOST 6 · 0 1

just be there for her....thats what i love about my friends...they're there when i need them

2006-09-20 11:02:39 · answer #9 · answered by falloutboygirl_13 2 · 1 0

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