I always feel alone, not in my every day life but in my love life even when i lived with my x and we were going to get marred. can any one fill this empty hole in my heart?
2006-09-20 10:49:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First ask yourself what you really want from yourself and then that special person, and is it more then he/she can give you. Usually we find our self feeling like that because there are problems within ourselves, Take a step back and reevaluate yourself and see if you're really in love or just telling yourself you are.
2006-09-21 14:42:38 · answer #1 · answered by Raven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling. Being with someone u just feel bored with. In my case the love was gone. He'd lied so much till it just drained the love out of me.
Last but not least you're not alone hun. GOD has always and is always with u anywhere we r. I'm not alone I'm just bored with the relationship were my words.
Prayer is always a comfort even if u feel u don't know how to pray. Prayer is a personal conversation with GOD. The feeling afterwards and sometimes during is overwhelming try him and see for yourself. Keep your faith honey no matter what man takes you through.
GOD bless
2006-09-20 11:02:48 · answer #2 · answered by precious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am looking that one too. I have a friend & she was married with children but that was short an then on own, had room mates live out of town just say had a good life an a past boyfriend who left but did come back & know I not sure were I stand because we do not go in to it!
2006-09-20 11:08:45 · answer #3 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you.
You know I am going to tell you that before you can be happy with someone you must be happy with who you are.
Try some therapy. There must be deep-seated issues that prevent you from feeling fulfilled in a relationship.
Discover these reasons with the support and encouragement of a trained professional. It is a very healthy experience and you will find yourself on the path to a happier life.
Good luck.
2006-09-20 10:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be looking for someone else to fill the hole, you should find out why you have to hole and fill it yourself. Once you have done that you will have better relationships.
2006-09-20 10:52:07 · answer #5 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..i cant fill the hole, but maybe you havent found the right person to fill it. ANd being on yahoo answers aint gona help! go out to a place for socializing, maybe that special someone's just around the corner waiting for ya! =D
2006-09-20 10:52:01 · answer #6 · answered by cand-e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aren't happy within yourself. you have to be happy and fullfilled within you before anyone can make you. that is something you need to work with. don't expect to be happy with a love or a person and you are going thru emotional trials. know exactly what it is that you are looking for in a relationship fellowship then once you have conquered that then you can be happy with your decisions in a mate you will not have just settled down with just anyone, but that right one.feeling alone is due to them not satisfying you emotionally, but you must know what that be that can make you happy
2006-09-20 11:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking for someone else to fulfill you and any emotional voids you have, it won't work. Only you and God can work on that and fill those voids. Work on loving yourself before you try to share that love with someone else in a relationship.
2006-09-20 10:53:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were feeling empty because although you might have liked the person, they were still leaving something to be desired by you. yes i am sure there is somebody out there that could be the way that will make your heart pitter patter
2006-09-20 10:55:31 · answer #9 · answered by butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth has many faces--
we are each alone, and we could be with someone
its a matter of where you want to focus
just dont get too hung up on the alone part
2006-09-20 10:53:57 · answer #10 · answered by enigma q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋