been there done that. guess i have just gotten older and looking for something more than that. lets hear from you....
2006-09-20 10:47:42 · 11 answers · asked by jason s 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
sometimes people just want something besides sex...i know some people find that hard to believe but it is true..i could care less about sex..it is very over-rated
2006-09-20 10:53:31 · answer #1 · answered by va8326 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I have no idea what you're talking about. Bored with sex? You are a strange and curious creature. I really like that, and I find it very attractive.
Its really not fair that you're missing out on the great experiences that come from sexual interest and exploration. You deserve more out of life. Go get it.
Seriously, maybe there's something about sex that makes you anxious or nervous, or makes you feel negative thoughts instead of good ones about yourself?
If this is the case, you should talk to a counselor and find out what's holding you back from sexual enjoyment. Being disinterested in sex is simply not at all 'normal' for most multicellular lifeforms on this planet.
There is a very rare condition which causes some people to be apathetic about sex. Perhaps with some help you could discover if the condition is psychological or physical and then work from there to get in on the action. :)
2006-09-20 18:33:48 · answer #2 · answered by Todd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree. when you get a little older sex becomes just as much a mental & emotional as well as physical activity. We get tired of just bump bumpbump sometimes. What about before? What about afterward? Will I see you again? blah,blah,blah.
I think you're just at a point where you won't just settle for a cute face and a hot bod...you want substance and without those elements in the future relations you may have, you're not gonna feel like " Gettin' Busy" Very often. Good luck though.
2006-09-20 17:58:55 · answer #3 · answered by divasimone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations! Sounds like you are in the beginning stages of wantign a relationship, for the long term. Ready to settle down where you realize sex is not what life is about. Love is. Companionship, and understanding. Next it is up to you to decide what you want from it. I suggest you read a bood called "my guy" By: Martin Kantor
2006-09-20 17:53:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there is something physically wrong that can be fixed with medicine? Have you talked to a doctor?
And if you have no interest in sex then what have you really lost?
Find a hobby or something that you enjoy and satisfies you :)
2006-09-20 17:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by Trish 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do some soul searching. Talk to a psychologist or medical doctor. It may be more than a sexual concern. Lastly take your time and give yourself a break-you may not have met anyone who floats your boat. It may not be you. Talk to those you trust and who care about you.
2006-09-20 21:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try something different. Switch off (LOL) if you are top try being a bottom for a while or vice versa.
2006-09-20 17:57:07 · answer #7 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not interested, you're not interested. Some people just aren't. If your partner/spouse/whatever is happy, then go you! Just enjoy whatever it is you enjoy, as long as it's legal and not hurting anybody.
2006-09-20 17:50:50 · answer #8 · answered by living_in_a_bell_jar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u need to be with a female. that is the ONLY natural sex.
2006-09-20 18:35:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
so sad for you.
2006-09-20 17:51:08 · answer #10 · answered by Why do you ask? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋