2006-09-20 10:44:58 · 31 answers · asked by Diamond G 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
You're not ready. If he's going out with a 13yr old and he's already 19, all he wants from you is your body! Don't waste your time with him, sweetie. You're WAY too young.
2006-09-20 10:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should realize your 19 yr old boyfreind is a pedophile and sex at yoru age is illegal for an adult.
That may sound harsh but it is true. If your boyfriend loves you he should simply wait until your older around 15-16 before thinking about sex. Your internal sexual organs are still developing and sex at your young age actually increases the risk of cancer later in life for your reproductive organs.
Please do not rush into sex a 13 yr old may feel ready but unless you are also ready for herpes, hepititus, HIV, ghonnorhea, clyamida and a host of other STDS and issue not to mention a child then you are not ready for sex even though your urges may tell you otherwise.
You never get a second chance to have your first time- wait it really is worth it you will enjoy it far more when you are older and a little more physically developed.
2006-09-20 17:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by Answerkeeper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 13. You are NOT ready - physically and dang sure not emotionally - to have sex. If you are having urges, then masturbate. You do NOT wantto have sex with this guy, who would be committing a crime if he does have sex with you. That is considered child molestation and statutory rape, and he will be labeled a sex offender for life. Aside from that - who cares about that creep if he is wanting to have sex with a 13-year-old - why would you waste your life on him? You are not mature enough to know what you are getting into. Nothing against you, but you are simply not old enough. What will you do when you are 14, pregnant, and Boyfriend is in prison for sex crimes against a child? If he is so sorry he will have sex with a 13-year-old, then he is probably screwing other young girls behind your back. Trust me, darling, this man is only using you for sex. DON'T FALL FOR IT. Please, please, PLEASE, do not have sex, break it off with this man, report him to your parents or a trusted adult, and RUN AWAY. He is an adult preying upon you. He might say he loves you and all that trash, but please don't be dumb enough to believe it.
You are worth more than just for sex. Wait until you are at least 17 (or older) and make sure the guy really, really loves you. PLease, PLEASE listen to me. I will not sleep knowing some stranger, an innocent 13-year-old, is being used and abused by a sick-minded 19-year-old monster.
Just say NO! If he really did love you, he would accept that you ARE NOT READY. And believe me, you are NOT. Physically nor emotionally.
2006-09-20 18:00:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there. All I can say is, been there, done that.
Granted, I was two years older than you are now at the time, but it's a BAD IDEA to go for an older man if you're at all underage. Trust me. It'll make you feel bad about yourself and really screw you over when you guys break up.
How long have you been dating? WHY are you dating someone six years older than you? He's using you, honey. Gotta face the truth.
Please don't do it, for your own sake.
2006-09-20 18:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by Claire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT IN THE HELL R U DOIN WITH A 19 YR OLE BOYFRIEND? More to the point, what is he doing with you? I'm not being nasty and I'm sure you're a nice girl but he's a man (not a boy) and all he is after is your body.
I don't know where you're from, but I'm sure having sex with a 13 year ole is illegal.
PLEASE, PLEASE, speak to an adult about this. If you can't speak to your parents, then PLEASE find an adult to talk to. In my mind this guy is acting like a pedophile and the only person who is gonna benefit from the 2 of you having sex is HIM.
2006-09-20 17:58:25 · answer #5 · answered by Ms Fabulosity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur only 13 and u want to have sex? and y do u have a 19 year old boyfriend? u r too young, u need to get older. chances are, u won't stay w/that guy or marry him. u shouldn't just give ur virginity away, guys won't respect u. they'll just think that u r an easy slut. u r still growing, so sex is not good for your body yet. just wait a few years! if ur boyfriend really loves u, he won't pressure u and he will wait! but he most likely just wants ur body, so u really shouldn't be with him. get w/someone ur own age!!!
2006-09-20 17:53:41 · answer #6 · answered by zomplexi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
13 year olds dating 19 year olds. What HAS the world come to. That's illegal to have sex with a minor. He could go to jail, what are you doing with a person that is SIX years older then you.
Tell an adult, immediately, now.
2006-09-20 18:08:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're obviously not ready because you're asking a bunch of strangers what to do. You shouldn't be going out with someone so old when you are so young (no, there isn't anything wrong with dating someone older, just not when you're barely a teenager) you need to speak with an adult about this. An adult you know. Ask your mom or an aunt for advice. But don't have sex with him just because he wants to. You are way too young!
2006-09-20 17:53:33 · answer #8 · answered by jamieinreno 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if you're ready to be a mom....
every time you have sex, there's a possiblity to get pregnant even though you use a condom or anything.
I think you are way too young, don't rush into anything, he's older and his hormones tell him, "don't care, just want sex", of course he is ready!!
2006-09-20 17:52:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omigosh ur just a baby, don't do it please, because a lot of girls who give up their virginity at a young age regret it, and this 19 year old boyfriend of yours is probably just gonna use you, just wait until your a little older and have been out with more guyz, don't put urself out there for that guy until u really feel that he's the one. But please think it through you don't wanna be a 13 year old mother do u?
2006-09-20 18:29:37 · answer #10 · answered by RayNieJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋