I'm your average college guy who goes to school, works and likes to work out about 6 times a week. I've been working out at the same gym for nearly 3 years and have come across this guy who I think is really attractive. I see this person nearly everytime I go and I've notice that he sometimes stares from a distance, to oversee what I'm doing. I'm not really your typical gay guy who's all flamboyent yet I think he notices when I stare at him too. He doesn't seem gay to me, but I sense vibes from him. I really don't know how to handle the situation nor how to approach him, cuz you know, you might end up getting insulted or getting your lights punched out. Any suggestions???
2006-09-20 10:24:02 · 8 answers · asked by GQ-babe 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sorry dude, no easy answers. Like Randy said he may be part of the g0y movement, closeted or questioning. The best way to find out is to ask. Best way to do that is to get close to him. Say hello, start nice normal casual conversation. Listen and see where it goes. If he is interested in anything with you he will continue the conversation. This also gives him a reason to talk to you. Good luck
2006-09-20 10:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. If it's meant to happen, things will evolve.
2. I.E. serendipity will take place and bring the right set of circumstances for you to meet face to face.
2006-09-20 10:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by mitch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you work out put on a shirt that has a rainbow flag on it.
2006-09-20 10:28:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him and be discrete. I thought us straight guys were wimps to ask women, come on, go for it. Regardless of who you are attracted too, if you don't make calls, you can't sell yourself.
2006-09-20 10:27:11 · answer #4 · answered by utahraptor88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the soap!!! ha ha ha. Naw for real bend yo *** over and see if he looks and if he does you know because aint no straight man looking at no *** of another man.
2006-09-20 10:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by Miss T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude, that isn't your only question sorry to break it to u. okay, here is your question u have to answer ARE U GAY?!
that is the question u need to answer not how do i find out if he is?
2006-09-20 10:28:10 · answer #6 · answered by Ashleigh h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, by the way. g0y = gay.
2006-09-20 11:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by Vancouver-snuggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be g0y
http://g0ys.org
2006-09-20 10:30:48 · answer #8 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋