i really don't want to do it but i have no choice. I have decided to not find out the sex of the baby i am due in November. please help and understand that i really don't want to do this
2006-09-20 10:21:40 · 32 answers · asked by perfectangelof2004 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
sure, but i wouldnt really be offering your baby out on the internet to people.. there's better ways to do it i'm sure!
2006-09-20 10:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by Mina222 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you REALLY do NOT want to place your baby for adoption, then DON"T. You need to speak to a professional, be it a MD or therapist to help you come up with a plan. My question to you is why do you feel like you HAVE to? Your OB or MD should be able to direct you to the appropriate place to start. IN the meantime, DO NOT advertise your child on the internet. There are alot of sick people out there who are not who they say they are.
By the way, I am pregnant myself. I understand how overwhelming things can be. If you take the time to think clearly about all of your options. Information is now your best friend,get as much as you can, sort thru it. I recommend that you look at Dr. Phil's website too. He's got great advice and I think it would be beneficial to you.
Good luck
2006-09-20 11:24:59 · answer #2 · answered by mczhp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there,
How far along are you? Why are you giving up your baby? Have you talked to your doctor about this?
Having a baby when it's not expected can definately be scary. I don't think anyone here is doubting the fact that you don't want to give up your baby, but just want to make sure you have thought this through. If your decision is to give up the baby, then please go to an adoption agency to start the process. This site, although very informative and amazing, is not a place to find potential parents. You need to thoroughly screen who your baby's future parents will be. If you want the best for your baby, a future you cannot provide, then the best way to do that, is to find a place where they can help you.
Good luck, and you are in our prayers.
2006-09-20 10:36:51 · answer #3 · answered by rainheaven 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you are a teen and I applaud you for choosing adoption over abortion. If you feel that you are being forced into adoption by your parents (?) and you really don't want to do it go to a women's shelter. They can help you get your feet on the ground and give you and the baby the best possible start for your situation. Call your local police station and tell them your situation. They will point you in the right direction. Good luck and God bless.
2006-09-20 11:00:45 · answer #4 · answered by pebble 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was your pregnancy an accident because if it was planned and now you don't want to have it you should have protected yourself. However why can't you keep it. I am a mother I have three daughters and the most beautiful experience that any woman could have is that of giving birth and bring a life into this world and when you see that beautiful baby that has been growing inside of you for the past nine months how could you want to give it away. Girl there are those in this world who have less than u and they have their babies. It may be hard but the amount of love you have in your heart for that child there is no words to describe that awesome feeling. Think about it serious before you make the decision to give your child away make sure that you won't have any regrets at all about making this type of decision. There are many what if when you do that you wonder what if the child is being treated right, is the child with a loving family there are so many things.
There is no greater love than that of a mother.
2006-09-20 10:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by amb1964 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Make sure you check out your state's laws on adoption before you commit. Long ago, I was considering giving my then unborn baby up for adoption. But I found out that my state's law stated that I would have to keep my child for 3 days after he was born before I would be allowed to give him up for adoption. I would be able to change my mind during those 3 days. I knew I would never be able to resist keeping my baby after having it for 3 days, so I gave up on the adoption idea. I kept my baby :o) and he's almost 15 years old now.
Do you have a friend or family member that would take care of the baby for you until you're ready? You may think you want to adopt out your baby now, but trust me, you will regret it eventually.
2006-09-20 11:01:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adoption is a beautiful thing. What a unselfish thing to do. However, for the sake of the baby, you should go through an adoption agency. They do thorough background checks. Good luck to you and all those who would love to adopt your baby. My prayers are with you all.
2006-09-20 14:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by a mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love to adopt a baby, but I think it is really dangerous for you to ask over the internet. I would hate to see you get hurt. I don't know your circumstances, but I sincerely hope that if you want this baby you get the help you need in order to keep it.
2006-09-20 10:34:25 · answer #8 · answered by sassytxlassie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I beg you to not give your baby away like this. Its just not the way to do it. Find a lawyer or leave the baby in the hospital. Just don't give your baby up for adoption over the computer.
2006-09-20 14:35:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love to but the best thing for you to do is contact an agency. They will find a loving family for your precious one and help you with medical expenses if needed. YOu can arrange an open or closed adoption - hichever works best for you.
good luck - I hope all works out well for you both.
2006-09-20 10:43:34 · answer #10 · answered by AlongthePemi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are legal ways of going about this . Call your nearest hospital and find out what they are. Do it for the baby's well being, you never know who your talking to on here. You could be giving your child to a predator. Please do it for the baby. Write me if you need help in doing this at
turnertoria@yahoo.com
you don't have to do this alone, if need be, i will help you as much as i can.
2006-09-20 10:34:16 · answer #11 · answered by Toria T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋