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i can't take care of a baby bymyself and i'm not getting an abortion.......

2006-09-20 10:05:20 · 21 answers · asked by kaylaissexy15 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

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Yes. Put the baby up for adoption and dump the dude.

2006-09-20 10:16:30 · answer #1 · answered by gspmommy 3 · 1 1

You'd be surprised what you can do after giving birth to a beutiful baby that you made. But, if you really feel that you can't take care of it, contact your local crisis pregnancy center and they will speak with you about adoption. There are millions who would love to have a baby and could give your baby a good life. I commend you for being responsible enough to not have an abortion and giving your baby life!

2006-09-20 10:12:26 · answer #2 · answered by #3ontheway! 4 · 0 0

First, are you sure ? Second, have you discussed with him about this?

If confirmed, it will be very hard to regain the trust back.

Ask support from your family: parents or brothers-sisters... further more, ask opinion of HIS parents/brothers-sisters. You need to get deep family support.

It may be possible this is an acceptable accident however chances are slim that he would not be able to do it again.

Splitting with him does not mean you do not allow him to see the child, it will mean it will just lose you because respect is important. Maybe after several months of split you will be able to assess situation differently depending on his attitude.

For sure, do not accept this betrayal, but maybe do not break all bridges for sake of baby's future.

Cheers,

2006-09-20 10:20:29 · answer #3 · answered by casper_international2005 2 · 0 0

I guess that depends. Is it ok with you that he has done this? I assume not. Leave him. You have to. If you don't, then he knows he will get away with cheating on you and continue to do so. You can take care of the baby. Its called child support. Plus there is the WIC program...or breastfeeding is wonderful..great for you, the baby, and to save money. You can do it on your own. You don't want a man like that. Stand up and be strong and tell him to hit the road. If you don't, you will continue to have troubles with him.

2006-09-20 10:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Honestly, I would get rid of the guy because you have no idea if he's done this before and he will most likely do it again. Have a paternity test administered so he can't deny the child and demand child support. You can make it. A lot of women face the same problem and they are excellent mothers. Hang in there.

2006-09-20 10:21:19 · answer #5 · answered by d4cav_dragoons_wife84 3 · 0 0

That sucks....seriously! Pick your heart up off the floor sweetie and realize that with or without him...a baby is going to be born. You have three options:

1 Try to work it out with him...for the sake of your child
2 Abor....abor...abor....well, you know the second
3 Adoption

None of these options may entice you, I know but there is already a baby there now so determine which option will best suit your needs. I'm not for abor....abor...abor....well you know, but it's not my place to judge anyone and everyone's situation is different. Check out a credited Adoption Agency http://www.adoption.com/ and you will be amazed at how many wonderful families want babies but can't have them, most of them will even pay for your maternity care and will allow you to name the baby and stay in contact. Just remember, it's your body and your choice!

2006-09-20 10:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs_Rivera2U 2 · 0 0

who caught your bf having sex? was it a reliable source? anyways...if he was cheating and you dont want to be with him then I would do the whole single mother thing. If you cant take care of a baby by yourself, hopefully you have a good family and friend support system who will help you in any shape or form when the baby arrives. if you want to stay with your bf , i would be open and honest and talk about why it was he cheated and try to regain trust and communication in the relationship for the sake of not only you two but for your child who is coming into this world...best of luck!

2006-09-20 10:09:00 · answer #7 · answered by clubsandra 3 · 0 1

I caught my boyfriend with two other girls one of them is pregnant plus im about to have my baby I told him I didnt want a relationship with him but he was going to help with the baby or I would file for child support.

2006-09-20 10:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by awesome_chick2009 2 · 1 0

Adoption or if you want to keep the baby you could discuss child support now and get the order as soon as possible.

2006-09-20 10:08:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

First of all you can do the adoption thing or child support thing. Two, you need to start choosing real men to date and quit f@cking around with boys.

2006-09-20 10:09:00 · answer #10 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 1 0

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