Me & my b.f. have been 2gether 4 about 7 months....I wanna break up cuz I have moved on but he tells me he loves me & he asked me this 2day if I would have sex with him... totally clueless also 1 of his friends told me he got me somthin thats alot of money & he gunna say sumthin inportant...what do I do...
2006-09-20 10:01:45 · 17 answers · asked by sweetkisses 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to be honest with him and get it over with. If you keep dragging it out you are being deceitful and that is not fair to him.
2006-09-20 10:04:29 · answer #1 · answered by Daisy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey he doesn't know what 'NO' nor 'BREAKUP' means. He's in denial. Don't except anything from him or he will assume he has u back. There's an old saying 'I can show u better than I can tell u'. He needs to move on and he won't if u keep communication open between u two. U say u have moved on then let him do the same. Put space between u both and go on with ur life.
Also be careful men who r n denial tend to do stupid things.
GOD bless
2006-09-20 17:08:09 · answer #2 · answered by precious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're ready to move on then that's what you have to do. Sex would be a waste of your time right now and then you will really be confused on what to do because of it's alterior motives. And if his friend tells you he spent alot of money on you then it's a set up. You might be thinking it's a ring...it's NOT! Just move along and go find someone else who will keep your interest for longer than 7 mos.
2006-09-20 17:09:56 · answer #3 · answered by dave r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay look I'm a teenager but a machure one. And I've been in this situation before, look if you don't love him and want out then you need to stand up and tell him you don't want to talk to him for a while, but if he's one of those guys that keep holding on then just ell him you don't love him and won't love him ever again and don't fall for any tricks like crying and saying he's worthless without you 'cause guys are constantly pulling those cards.
2006-09-20 17:06:05 · answer #4 · answered by outlandishb13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell him the truth about what's going on. Don't just led him on since you know you moved on already. Just let him down easily with no hard feelings. And for the sex part I know you are not considering it cause you know you don't feel the same about him like he do, so my suggestion don't do it cause it is only going to make things worst.
2006-09-20 17:06:49 · answer #5 · answered by PurpleMoon031 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately think about what YOU want to do. Do you love him? If you hesitate on answering that, maybe you should think about it before you jump in the sack with him. If you have sex then he could possibly get the wrong message and you might have a bigger problem on your hands. Good luck and definately take some time to think....
2006-09-20 17:05:51 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. Intuition 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is simple: is don't want him there is nothing you can do than let him go. It takes 2 for a relationship it's not enough that he loves you. Trust me I tried and you can't love someone as a boyfriend just because his in love with you.
2006-09-20 17:06:13 · answer #7 · answered by ghost_in_red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bizarre.
2006-09-20 17:03:26 · answer #8 · answered by Rosita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him fast before he ask you to marry him.Break his heart if that's what's best
2006-09-20 17:03:28 · answer #9 · answered by Brooklyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't compromise, don't take any present, & move on, you'll be much happier, you're already over him anyways.
2006-09-20 17:03:36 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Lasha♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋