Well, How do you know when a men loves you? If you are 19years old and a man is in mid 30's and he keeps trying to pretend he loves you. What the heck is wrong with that?
2006-09-20 09:54:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Keep in mind that your maturity levels may be different and that is not to put you down quite frankly he may be less mature than you :). Secondly make sure that it is what you want keep in mind that at the age 35 most Men want to settle down so if you are not ready then cut him off now so that neither of you get hurt in the long run.
2006-09-20 10:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by blue_dragoness5695 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN!!! unless he has money.... ha ha ha
Seriously though there is nothing wrong with dating an older man but that is too big of a difference maturity wise. I would just ask yourself if you two have anything in common, maybe he is just a very immature 30 (which seems to be the case with all men) or you are just extremely mature for 19. Whatever the case don't let age be the factor.
2006-09-20 10:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have answered your own question. He keeps trying to pretend that he loves you. Come on, have a little self pride. He may be using you, he may like sex with you, but love you. NO WAY. Men who treat you well in all circumstances, who stand up for you, who protect you and support you; men who are kind, appreciative, faithful and truthful; those are the ones that love you. Pretenders don't even love themselves.
2006-09-20 09:59:28 · answer #3 · answered by Answergirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are 19 years old you have your whole life ahead of you why not just be a kid and play the Field and see what your options are. Even if he really does love you, you may be in different stages of life. Him ready to settle down, you spread your wings. Live a little.
2006-09-20 10:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know he is pretending, why are you with him? Come to think of it, why is a man in his 30s dating a teenager (adult legally or not, you are still a teenager and you will change so much in the next ten years it will blow your mind)?
Get out of that situation and enjoy your life while you are still so young.
2006-09-20 10:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by robinc1117 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not love that is infatuation , and trying to hold on to his youth " you make him feel young " . sorry the truth hurts . You see security and he sees a young untamed peace . Take it from a man . I have a rule never date anyone more that 5 years younger than me . To big generation gap . Get out while you still can .
2006-09-20 10:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by conan_0565 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honey if you can obviously tell he just keeps trying , he is either really trying or he is a jerk and you need to find someone that will treat you a heck of alot better. good luck!
2006-09-20 09:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
II HAVE TO RESPOND TO THIS BECAUSE LOVE MEANS SOMETHING DIFFERENT TO EVERYONE LIKE WHEN U CAN COMPLETE EACH OTHERS SENTENCES AND LAUGH ABOUT IT AND IT'S NOT ALWAYS IF HE'S FEELIN YOU DO YOU FEEL HIM .........YOU SAY HE'S PRETENDING SO THERE IS A DOUBE IN YOUR MIND THAT IT'S ALL AN ACT .........HAY IF YOU LOVE SOMETHING LET IT GO IF IT COMES BACK IT'S YOURS IF IT DOESN'T IT NEVER WAS
2006-09-20 10:04:43 · answer #8 · answered by mojajazmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you, he just wants to have sex with you and then tell all his friends that he's having sex with a 19 year old
2006-09-20 12:52:36 · answer #9 · answered by ralph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey - well all have problems, but the only one that can help us is ourselves. Look within yourself - what do you want out of life, think about how stupid this question is and that should answer your question
2006-09-20 09:57:55 · answer #10 · answered by Cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋