2006-09-20 09:48:11 · 17 answers · asked by brothamannn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Follow her around all day with a tape recorder really close to the phone.
2006-09-20 09:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ady_8e_80♥ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OMG Grow up already!!! If you feel the need to do this then one of two things is wrong...either your wife is a tramp or you are an insecure, jealous, untrusting jerk...either way your marriage is over so don't even bother with all the sleuthing..just pack your crap and go. If its you get some therapy if its her oh well you picked the wrong girl. This is just ridiculous and childish and pointless anyway. If she isn't, and never has done anything wrong and finds out about this little game of yours she'll leave you anyway so no matter how you look at it this relationship is done, or at least in serious trouble and listening to phone conversations isn't going to do anything to fix any of that so why bother? What do you actually gain? Use some common sense here!
2006-09-20 10:01:08 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is but if you are wanting to then you really have a big trust problem and not much of a marriage so who is cheating you are her. If it is you that does not mean she is as well. Just ask her if you can listen to her voice mail if she doesn't have anything to hide she should let you if she says no are goes crazy on you get out while you can because something is up!!!
2006-09-20 09:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by fudge_patty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't trust her, it doesn't matter what you hear on her cell phone. You'll start to become paranoid every time the phone rings, every time she leaves the house. You need to work on your trust without snooping in on her conversations. If she found out you did that and she was innocent, you'd be history anyway.
2006-09-20 09:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by Mommy2Liam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not that I'm aware of, but you can check text messages on line through your cell phone company that's how I found out that my wife was cheating on me while i was in Iraq
2006-09-20 09:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by wusabi12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What Rainey said. There is no use in satying if you don't trust her. What caused this? are you cheating or do u have a hunch? Communication is the key in all relationships.
2006-09-20 09:50:43 · answer #6 · answered by madtyga2002 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'd be better off just hiring a private detective if you really feel you need to check up on her.
2006-09-20 10:01:18 · answer #7 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can buy equipment from a web site called "sneaky untrusting bastards.com" They specialize in equipment for troubled souls like you.
2006-09-20 09:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by Rich Z 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. You obviously don't have the ability of trusting another person, so you shouldn't be in a relationship.
2006-09-20 09:50:41 · answer #9 · answered by Ken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? You already know the problem. Do you really need to hear it?
2006-09-20 10:42:53 · answer #10 · answered by Tristan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋