Okay well My boyfriend was on the phone with me and he sounded upset or pissed and I want to ask him whats wrong but I always do and I am scared he might freak if I ask..Also he has a problem when I have my friends with me..He walks away because they are there and he says he cant talk to me normaly when they are there .. he also doesnt like one of my friends because she annoys him .. but she annoys me too..I dont know what to do about it all..Im really confused and I want this relationship to last .. I just need some advice please.
Thanks<3.
2006-09-20 09:38:43 · 9 answers · asked by My-Feelings-Inside 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sounds like he is an abusive guy. He is trying to seperate you from your friends by not talking to you when you are with them, which is a sign of an emotional batterer.
If you ever have to worry that asking someone whats wrong will set them off, its not a healthy relationship. I dont think it's in your best interest to make this relationship last, honestly.
Talk to your parents and friends about this guy and ask them what they think. Sometimes they see things that you dont. if they dont like him for you, thats a major flag, ok?
2006-09-20 09:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by kari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he has an attitude problem. Classic start to abusive relationship later - been there done that - look for other signs. Personally I'd just get out now. Good Luck.
2006-09-20 09:46:38 · answer #2 · answered by Horseplay#9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are going to have to choose...BF or rest of your life...He is trying to isolate you so you are totally dependent on him...once that happens he can do anything with you...he sounds like the classic abusive type. I would stay away.
2006-09-20 09:43:10 · answer #3 · answered by want it bad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to isolate you. A real man does not get upset that his GF has friends. You are your own person and should not change to find someone. Find someone who appreciates you for who you are.
2006-09-20 09:48:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your best friend that u want 2 be wit ur man and that u cant always be around her and things like that and u want ur realtionship 2 last so tell her how u feel. and hopefully she will understand wher ur comming from if not get a new best friend.
2006-09-20 09:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a boyfriend "problem"? Ask him whats wrong already! And if he doesnt answer, then drop it and stop worrying about it.
2006-09-20 09:41:49 · answer #6 · answered by JusticeManEsq 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your friends will be there 4ever and he may not, I had lost all my friends cause I had an ex who was like that and trust me its not worth it cause we broke up and I had no friends!
2006-09-20 09:48:03 · answer #7 · answered by **GG** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she annoys you then are you sure she's a friend. and he should want to be accepted by your friends their a part of you.
2006-09-20 09:42:09 · answer #8 · answered by pezzle9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't take your friends being around, you have three choices.
Stop seeing your friends. Stop seeing him. Or stop seeing them together.
2006-09-20 09:42:32 · answer #9 · answered by SweetD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋