need help cause i dont know what to do heres my story
i have had things happen to me in the past few year that wernt my fault but the upset me so much that i find my self cryin my self to sleep. my life was goin fine for a few months then all of a sudden i started to cry alot or feel like crying. my friends have knowticed that i have been quieter and not as much fun. and when i here this 1 song that didnt used to upset me now makes me cry. the song is outside looking in by Jordan Pruitt. every time i here this song these day i start to cry. im not thinking good about my self lately. i think im fat(im 5'1" and weigh 99 lbs.) i hate my teeth and my hair and b4 i thought i had kinda manly shoulders but i just recently found out that one of my best friends said that i did have manly shoulders.honestly i think if fat and ugly. i dont know y i been feeling like this lately help me please
also im a little shy so i dont really know how to tell my parents.
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2006-09-20 09:38:41 · 7 answers · asked by K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
some subject brought up make me cry and i find my self crying alot. im not one who usually crys over things really easially
2006-09-20 09:39:46 · update #1
i also feel like i always stick out and that often i do/ say things with out thinking and sometimes with out meaning them
im also having serious memory issues
i dont remember what i said 3 hrs ago
2006-09-20 09:41:29 · update #2
i have not been abused or n.e. thing
oh i also feel lefto ut alot
2006-09-20 09:45:42 · update #3
oh and one more thing... i think this will b the last one...when i go to bed i find im very scared and every noise i here makes me frightened the only way im not scared is when i seep in my moms room but even then i get scared with all the little noises even if i know what they are (oh and im 13 i think thats a little old to sleep in your moms room) when im at my dads house its even harder cause him i dont feel comfortable telling him stuff cause he will tell my step mom
2006-09-20 09:50:41 · update #4
i know i stated my weight and height but even though i know im thinking like that i cant stop
2006-09-20 10:17:34 · update #5
You need to get some counseling or at least find someone that you can talk to. Your school guidance counsler or your family doctor, they can give you a list of places that you could turn to or help you talk to your parents about getting help. If you do not get to talk thru what is bothering you, you could be in for a rough time....
Your best bet is just catch your mom and tell her you really need to talk and just put everything out there. I know it is hard, but that is what us moms are for. We want to be your rock, we want to help you, we love you and you are all that matter to us.
2006-09-20 09:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by Why do you ask? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have classic symptoms of depression, but i can assure you you're not fat, by stating you height and weight though it almost seems like you're just trying to get attention, you sound very young though so i just hope that you wait and grow up a little before you develop an eating disorder or anything that can really affect the rest of your life
2006-09-20 09:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you may be having some depression and anxiety.. but, don't worry those are completely temporairy and fixable... you should go and see your family doctor and tell him what is going on..he will probably prescribe you something to help with the symptoms...paxil is really good for depression and xanax is great for anxiety and in no time at all you should be feeling great..... hope all goes well...............................good luck : )
2006-09-20 09:45:53 · answer #3 · answered by mercy me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are suffering from anxiety attacks, whatever traumatic event triggered this needs to be addressed by a qualified therapist so you can put that event in perspective and move past it ... please try to tell your most understanding parent and ask them to get you some help ... i know a lot of young girls in your situation and you can get past this with the proper help ... please talk to your most understanding parent ... they do love you.
2006-09-20 09:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only have your problems moved me deeply but your butchering of the English language has brought me to tears also.
2006-09-20 09:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bottom line, Get counseling, to get understanding and closure to what you are going through.
2006-09-20 09:57:24 · answer #6 · answered by WOODSAK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you by any chance sexually abused in the past few years?
2006-09-20 09:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋