what would you do if you and your close friend likes the same guy?
2006-09-20 09:36:02 · 18 answers · asked by atabarbie_doll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i'd be very afraid i was gay.
2006-09-20 09:39:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would see how much she is digging the guy. I would to talk to her about. Personally I would let her have him or let him decide to who he likes. I mean like you both talk to him and see who he is digging the most. Whoever it is should get the guy. But then again that is not right, so I suggest you go and find another guy. That is the only way to solve the problem. I hated when someone close to me likes the same guy as me. I just let them have him and find someone else there are plenty of fish in the sea.
2006-09-20 16:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by PurpleMoon031 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're both just crushing, getting territorial is stupid--stop that. However, if you each reach a point where you'd like to pursue the guy for a BF...forget about it! That's unthinkable because he's just too great? Find out who he likes. Maybe neither of you are on his radar screen, so its a non-issue. If he likes your BFF, as a cool friend you should gracefully step aside and be happy for her--seriously. If he likes you, remember that she's not feeling so great about herself (she's just been passed over). So don't flaunt it.
2006-09-20 16:47:00 · answer #3 · answered by curiosa26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to have a serious talk with this person and let her/him know that you like him also. Then wait if he or she is interested in you or your friend. Don't let another person break your relationship with your close friend.
2006-09-20 16:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by kettycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well whats more important the guy or your friendship? If my friend liked a guy that would make me instantly not like him.
2006-09-20 16:38:59 · answer #5 · answered by anonbealove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys come and go, friends are forever. Forget the guy keep your friend!
2006-09-20 16:39:10 · answer #6 · answered by Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bow out gracefully, guys are not worth friendship
2006-09-20 16:38:34 · answer #7 · answered by momie_2bee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THATS TOUGH, I SAY IT ALL DEPENDS ON WHO THE GUY LIKES. YOU JUST HAVE TO MAKE A PACT WITH YOUR FRIEND THAT NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS WITH THIS GUY YOUR FRIENDSHIP WILL NOT BE AFFECTED. NO GUY IS WORTH LOSING A GOOD FRIEND.
2006-09-20 16:39:23 · answer #8 · answered by CHERYL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May the best friend win.
2006-09-20 16:37:33 · answer #9 · answered by to_sassy4_u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk it out and wish each other the best of luck and promise not to let anyone brake up out friendship
2006-09-20 16:42:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
flip a coin or the best to out of three wins other one butts out
2006-09-20 16:40:05 · answer #11 · answered by dalecollins64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋