I like a guy her and he is dating my bestfriend and he told me about 15 mins ago that he likes me what should i do?
2006-09-20 09:32:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
now i feel really bad cause she heard it and i told him to stay the hell away from us and she broke up with him and we are still friends so what sould we do now?
2006-09-20 09:39:34 · update #1
Nothing... you do and say nothing. He's your friends boyfriend not yours, go find one for yourself. If they breakup, after she finds a new guy, you ask her first if you can date him... if she say no, then it's no. If you just go ahead and make a play for the guy... you WILL LOSE your best friend.
2006-09-20 09:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by tbayxxxv 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, you are capable of being attracted to the wrong person. What makes your bestfriends boyfriend the wrong person is the fact that its your bestfriends boyfriend. You have to think, what is more important to you? Would you rather lose a good friend for a relationship that isnt going to last long? ( it wont last long because if that boy will leave his girl for her friend, he trifling and he will do it to you too). Its wrong, dont do it. It will cause to much drama in the end.
2006-09-20 16:37:15 · answer #2 · answered by dat_gurl_dot03 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YES! And its horrible becuase you have to be nice to him beacuse otherwise shell think you dont like him but you're afraid of being too nice incase she guesses you like him. And if it was just that I'd say try and act natural, you will hopefully get over it. Things are simplified/complicated by him telling you he likes you. They are simplified in that even if they weren't together would you really wanna be with a guy who tells you're best mate they like her? They are complicated in that do you tell youre friend what he said, could this be viewed as trying to break them up? I can't say really as it depends how close you and your friend are but if it was my mate I would ignore my feelings and not act on them and tell her what he said because she deserves to know. Hope this helps and good luck xxx
2006-09-20 16:42:01 · answer #3 · answered by xalex 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ye I liked my best friends boyfriend, but only after we stopped being friends so i don't know if that goes against "THE RULE". But if you and her are still friends then you should tell him thats very sweet but I respect my friend and her feelings so I think it would be better if we stayed friends. Be very polite and sensetive because guys' hearts are even more fragile then girls' hearts ( hard to believe I know) but its true. Good Luck
2006-09-20 16:35:58 · answer #4 · answered by VonDutchPrincess 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok, do nothing, tell this guy you are not interested. Its one thing to like a person and another to get involved. Getting involved with your bestfriends guy, means no more best friend. Weigh your options.
2006-09-20 16:34:41 · answer #5 · answered by Monie D 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are just a kid, and relationships at this point are meaningless in the overall scheme of things. Just have fun and experience life. If you like him and he likes you, then be honest with your friend and tell her about your feelings.
2006-09-20 16:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by Poopie Johnson 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can not date him. you will loose your best friend. It is not worth it. If they break up you need to give it some time and let your best friend heal form the wound but I will still say it is a bad idea
2006-09-20 16:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by Lori K 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Think of this. If this little prick is saying that he likes you and he's dating your best freind. One if u say u like him back, and u two hit off, guess what hes gonna do when hes tired of u? hes jus gonna tell one of ur freinds he likes them, wont u feel terrible. Oh and u'll lose ur best freind over this.
Is it worth it?
You decide
2006-09-20 16:45:11 · answer #8 · answered by starprosecutor 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't admit that you like him. Respect your friend and her feelings, is he worth losing a BEST FRIEND over? That's the question you need to ask your self.
2006-09-20 16:36:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him he's a jerk for cheating on her and them don't touch him. He's just trouble and will do the same thing to you as he's done to her. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Hope things work out!
2006-09-20 16:35:31 · answer #10 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋