2006-09-20 09:21:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
This happened to me and my friend to. We were about to stop being friends, but then we realized our friendship was much more important then the guy. So we talked it out and both came up with the decision that good friends are very rare and we shouldn't fight over a guy like this because there are so many of them. Talk it out with your friend and let her know that you care about her and you don't want your friendship to end over a guy.
2006-09-20 09:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by VonDutchPrincess 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her that friendship is more important than boys and that boys may come and go but friendship will never died. and beside this guy might be putting you guys against each other so he might be bad for both of you . I have the same thing happen to me last year but my other friend date the guy but broke up with him and they still friends but if you tell her that boys won't always be there then she might understand that this is really hurting your friendship then she might forget him and that could stop the fighting between you guys and you can still be friends while this guy find someone else. and beside do you really think that this boy interested in you guys or trying to break your girl friendship apart? think about it before you decide to date this guy.
Good Luck!
2006-09-20 16:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by mattie B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both should leave him alone. It is not worth losing a friendship over. If you both leave him alone, and let him make a choice of one of you two all on his own. Just let him know that both of you are intrested and let it go. If he like one of you he will ask. If he dosn't then he won't. And make a pact with your friend who ever he choses, if he choses either of you, that you will be happy for the other person and not mad at them. Good friends are hard to come bay. Friends are forever, boyfriends come and go like water through your fingers.
2006-09-20 16:29:01 · answer #3 · answered by Trin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your friend,let her have the boy,(it won't last anyway). Friendship goes way beyond boys,don't fight over such nonsince,life's too short,keep your friend and forget the boy. Boys will come and go but girlfriends are forever!!!!!!It's a sisterhood thing!!!!!!!
2006-09-20 16:30:11 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like i always say chicks before ***** and this seems to be the case between you and your friend. If this guy knows that both of you are after him and is willing to see the two of you possibly ruin your friendship over him then forget it theres other fish in the sea.
hope i helped.
2006-09-20 16:26:17 · answer #5 · answered by indiadeknowitall 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Definately forget the guy..friendships are more important in life. you know? If it were me and my Best friend fighting over a guy, i'd do just that :-) Hope i helped you out.
2006-09-20 16:31:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your friend have him. It's not worth breaking down your friendship over a guy.
2006-09-20 16:39:33 · answer #7 · answered by ♪~♥~♫~♥~♪ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop it, not worth ruining your friendship. This boy should be off limits to both of you and go find another boy to pursue.
2006-09-20 16:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by ☺Smiley☺ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How much do you like this guy? If he's great enough to lose a friend over, he must be some catch!
2006-09-20 16:30:59 · answer #9 · answered by iLLy W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her have him. True friends don't fight over boys. they are not worth losing your friend. Quite likely, you won't end up withthe boy, either.
2006-09-20 16:30:08 · answer #10 · answered by Just Gone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋