they are all really petty people saying this. they say "you are REALLY ugly!" or "ewww, what ARE you?" i cry myself to sleep every night. i just wanna start over!! please tell me what i should do? i look just like my avatar... :.(...
2006-09-20 09:03:24 · 18 answers · asked by Brooks C 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
those people that you say are really pretty people.....do you know how low their self esteem is...to call out another person...one has to fell something negative about themselves...believe me...I used to have the want to be around pretty people ...but behind those doors they are so worried and self absorbed...that they will do what ever it takes to be noticed...and most of the time...it was calling out some one Else's flaws. Those girls are really insecure about themselves...and you letting them do it...gives them more ground to play. next time someone calls you ugly...ask them how long did it take them to put on all that make up before coming to school. And why are they so scared to be themselves...without having to hide behind a painted face....
2006-09-21 00:49:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are the ones who are ugly by even saying these things to you! In my experience really pretty people are only really pretty because they have the right products. Go to a cosmetics counter and ask for a makeover (this is usually free) if you cant afford their products, go to walmart and by similar ones. Since you didnt really say what specifically they are making fun of you about I am just guessing. Wal-Mart has some really cute clothes , for cheap, and you can get an inexpensive cut and color from a beauty school ( but ask for one of the instructors to stand near by). I dont really know if your problem is lack of money or or the fact that you don't know where to start. It sounds to me like you might be young, and personally when you are young it is such a fleeting moment in time. I wasn't exactly attractive when I was younger and the older I grew and became okay with myself the prettier I got. Besides the fact that i finally grew into my big nose. So don't despair! If you want to talk more contact me.
2006-09-20 16:12:24 · answer #2 · answered by TRISHTHEDISH76 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey when people call u ugly just walk away and be the better person because everyong is pretty in some way even if u have hot pink hair and u r as pail as a ghost u r still pretty to someone out there in the world so just keep ur head high because the people calong u ugly like to c u when u have ur head down so just keep it up even when they do call u names ok and just remember to walk away and go talk to ur friends.
2006-09-20 16:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by soccer_sweety_24 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever think that maybe their jealous of you??? like i mean if you look like ur avatar then i mean I dont see what the problem is.....u know wot i mean??? i never came across any one who was my friend that said i was ugly to my face so therefore those who are saying that u r ugly they have the problem....everybody is unique and they relaised that you are more unique than they are so their jealous...its really obvious...there afraid that you'll get more out of life and lads...ect cause they more than likely do think you are prettier than them...and they think by putting u down is a way of making themselfs more 'unique' (or so they think) there sad eh!!!
2006-09-20 16:11:32 · answer #4 · answered by I_Luv_P!NK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you look just like yr avatar you are really pretty! Just tell them "You're just jealous." and flounce away. You don't have to be pretty to be good. Find out what you are good at and really work on it! Find something you like about yourself think of that good thing as often as possible. Try a new "do". You are pretty. In your own way. You just have to see that. When you do everyone else will too. Have confidence in yourself. Be brave. It usn't going to be easy.
2006-09-20 16:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have acquired low self esteem from all of these people saying you are ugly. I first thing you have to do is don't let these people get to you. Believe in yourself. Once you start believing in yourself you will start to shine. Hold yourself up and don't back down to them people. Once you do that maybe you could go to a beauty shop and ask for helpful tips on how you can fix your hair and makeup different ways. Hold your head up, I truly believe you are a beautiful woman so start shining!
2006-09-20 16:13:25 · answer #6 · answered by jeter2 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry, god made you and you are pretty however you look (and you look pretty). Those people who say those things to you look pretty to you, but they probably don't like how they look and are just saying it to put you down because they think you are prettier than them. By the way, latter in life you will get prettier and they won't. (this usually DOES happen) If they ask you what you are again, just reply that you are human, it is the truth.
2006-09-20 16:16:00 · answer #7 · answered by ♪~♥~♫~♥~♪ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please do not listen to mean people who say things like that. I know once you hear something like that, it's in your head, but really try not to take it to heart and believe it's true...I'm sure it's not, your avatar is cute! I cannot believe how cruel people can be sometimes, it gets me so mad. If you're in high school, all I can say is it gets better, I promise! Mean people s*ck!
2006-09-20 16:13:06 · answer #8 · answered by Lee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
beauty lies in the inside of everyone,people who poke fun of other people are really jealous of you,make new friends and think positive,dont let those morons get you down,next time tell them jesus loves them or tell them to take a hard look in the mirror ,they may be shocked to see how ugly they really are.keep your head up and ignore them .im rooting for you.from mikhal in israel.
2006-09-20 16:18:41 · answer #9 · answered by mikhal k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like some jealous people are using your insecurities to make themselves feel better. Focus on improving your self esteem and not listening to them
2006-09-20 16:07:40 · answer #10 · answered by aliciarox 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋