He controled me 100%.he went to therapy but didnt feel any better.we have been split up for 4months,but we are still in touch.i love him like i never did anyone and would love to be with him,but the way he is, it is just imposible.does anyone of u guys out there have this problem and maybe had been helped?what would help us, any medication,therapy,have u got any experience with therapy?please anwer,if u do, cause he suffers so much, his thoughts are making him suicidal, and it is just terrible.sorry for mistakes.thanks Eli
2006-09-20 08:56:37 · 11 answers · asked by Eli 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This kind of incessant jealousy is incurable. Stay independent.
2006-09-20 09:02:28 · answer #1 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think u both love each other alot.i mean u still love him even with all this controlling thing and he was trying to make a therapy because of that. some people are just very jealous because they think u could find somebody who is better then he is,i think he does trust u but maybe he is just way to scared that u could find somebody else who will give u something that he cant .im very shure that a therapy helps him or the both of u but i think u should do that together.it wont happen anything in any time soon,it takes a long walk in little steps to go there where u want.if u go with him to this therapy, u will cry with him and will feel all the pain he feels..and im shure u both together could make this long walk.but u have to be shure that u really want that,because u will have very hard times,so think about it very good if u love him so much that u would go through this hell with him, cause u will suffer too...
good luck with your decicion
2006-09-20 16:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by starlight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just being manipulative in order to try and get you to be with him again. If therapy didn't help, there's nothing you can do. If you're not willing to put up with his jealousy, it's time to delete him from your phone book.
2006-09-20 15:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to work on YOU. If you cared more about youself, you wouldn't be in love with someone who tried to control you 100%. Examine your own motives.
2006-09-20 15:59:22 · answer #4 · answered by full.of.info 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry eli but thius is what in the medical world is known as a nut case. stear cleer have no fear a better boyfriend will appear
2006-09-20 15:59:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to look at it this way if there is no trust in a relationship then there is no relationship do you realy want to be stuck hip to hip for the rest of your life? take time to think about what you really want you still might love him but do you really want to be unhappy ?
2006-09-20 16:00:05 · answer #6 · answered by mija~chula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he should be evaluated by a professional in the field. That is what I would do. Good Luck ! :)
2006-09-20 15:59:13 · answer #7 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a terrible thing. Give him one more chance to trust you and then be strong and move on.
2006-09-20 15:58:59 · answer #8 · answered by pezzle9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay in therapy. his problems are his own, and you are right to recogonize them as abnormal. get yourself away from this person closely, and then altogether. if he's not okay with it, you can't be blamed.
2006-09-20 16:01:44 · answer #9 · answered by Debi K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW GIRL PEOPLE LIKE THAT NEVER CHANGE IT'S BEST TO PART WAYS AND TRY TO FORGET ABOUT EACH OTHER MOST JEALOUS PEOPLE FEEL LIKE THAT ABOUT THEIR PARTNER BACAUSE THEY DO SOME OF THE THINGS THEY TRY TO REPREMEND YOU FROM : SORRY FOR CAPS : BUTTON IS STUCK
2006-09-20 15:59:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋