My husband likes ginormous breasts I know this because of the porn he looks at. I am not flat chested (Keira Knightly) nor am I huge (Pam Anderson.) Or should I just gain weight? I am thin - NOT Skeletor Nicole Richie thin - nor am I voloptous like Beyonce. I do have a booty though. I got thinner after my children and cannot gain weight. As it is I eat whateverI want. I would have to eat an ungodly amount of food in order to gain pounds. When he sees old pictures of me about 10 lbs heavier he says that I look hOT. What would you do?
2006-09-20 08:55:14 · 20 answers · asked by jenlovely01 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Unless your hubby has abs of steel, tell him to be a bit more sensitive. Tell him you like a guy with a ginormous weiner and make comments as he does. He is making you self concious and that is not right. You sound completely HOT to me and you should feel that way about yourself regardless of what he says.
2006-09-20 09:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The real issue here is, how much does it bother you that your husband is looking at porn. I have a little porn around the house, & it doesn't bother my wife. I am sure of that because I have asked her, & also she has put the odd Playboy or Penthouse in my Christmas stocking. I think the way I look at other women in these magazines is about the same as most men. I don't look at them & say to myself "Gee I wish my wife was like her". I never make the comparison at all because these women are not exactly real, since the pictures can be retouched to the point that they are only a slight reperesentation of the real thing.
Also I tend to get turned off by things artificial. (I asked my wife to stop buying Playboy & Penthouse) I much prefer things natural (if you know what I mean) I like girls with any sized breast as long as it's real. But Inflated artificially? Uggh!
The bottom line here is don't go getting your breasts enlarged for ANY man. Because I can guarantee you, that for every guy you find that will loudly say "Yeah Big Breasts" you will find ten that will silently think "Big or small I love 'em all" .
God bless you for being able to eat all you want & not gain weight. I wish I could do the same.
2006-09-21 07:33:41 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you got the money get breast implants and you will love them. If you don't have that kinda of money weight gaining might do the trick. Of couse I'm a big fan of breast implants. I'm slim also had kids and then you lose what you did have. But, Breast implants make you feel real hot. not only your husband will thnk so lots of other men do also. You feel more sexy than ever.They look great for years . maybe till you're 70 yrs old , thats what the doctor told me,I even had a head on wreck with drunk driver and they are stll great and that was 20 yrs. ago.
2006-09-20 09:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by Becca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When men look at porn, it's not necessarily what they expect from their spouse/girlfriend. Porn is a one-dimensional fantasy world that is not comparable to what you have to offer. Eat what is healthy for you and don't try to gain weight at the expense of your health. What really matters is how things go in the bedroom more than having the ideal body type. If a woman is good in bed, men tend to find women with that body type more attractive because they associate that body type with pleasure. Try to learn something new to please your husband or make love to him more often and see if that doesn't change his outlook.
2006-09-20 09:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by James L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do u feel u need to do? are u happy with your breast or have u not thought about that and u just want to make u'r husband happy. has suggested that u have implants. think about u'r self before n-e body else. if u want bigger breast by all means pump those babies up. and as far as gaing weight r u kidding me? you have breast boobs and a flat stomach. gaing weight isn't the answer making your body fit is but if u think gaing weight makes u look and feel better u go on ahead but dont eat too much cuz before u know it u will be big as a house ask my mom.
2006-09-20 09:03:53 · answer #5 · answered by Dr.fanny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never get breast implants for a man. I'm sure you are gorgeous the way you are. Obviously it's the wieght that your body is comfortable at. And I'm sorry, but 10 pounds either way doesn't hardly make any difference in the way you look. Huge breasts are not all they are cracked up to be.
2006-09-20 08:58:59 · answer #6 · answered by matty.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if my husband looked at porn and made comments about my body lacking something, I'd have his bags on the curb.
He sounds like a controlling little troll who will probably call you fat the minute you gain weight. I think you should drop about 180 pounds- HIM!
Many times I wonder if these questions are even real.
2006-09-20 08:59:31 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you doing this FOR HIM? It should be for you. And, besides, he married you for whom you are and it didn't matter what you looked like. Right? You should, NEITHER, get breast implants nor gain weight. If you want to get a body shape, then lift weights. You're worrying about something that shouldn't be an issue.
2006-09-20 09:00:48 · answer #8 · answered by SheDevil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be falling all over yourself to change because your husband is creating unrealistic expectations for your body through the porn he looks at. He is the one with the problem, not you. You sound like you have a nice body. Perhaps if he guarded his eyes and paid more attention to you, you wouldn't feel this way.
2006-09-20 08:58:55 · answer #9 · answered by Ann Ducketts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute!A wife who actually lost weight while she's married and your husband wants you fatter.Maybe you should find a man with a brain.
Tell him to quit watching the porn and start watching you more.
2006-09-20 09:02:40 · answer #10 · answered by oneidmnstr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋