i dont understand why my period isnt here yet! it was due on the 16th. the only time i had sexual like contact NO SEX was the 5th of august and the 16th of that i got my normal heavy period for 5days with little clots and everything like usual! i mean my period usually comes late but not THIS late and im seriously worrying now. and im still a virgin.. i never had sex all i had was some guy finger me for like 2 mins .. but i really dont think he had c.um on his hands cause i did not see/feel and he said he didnt. i just dont get why im not getting my period this month. im not so overly stressed but im stressed about this situation and REALLY want my period to come so i can live my life in peace.
im 15 years old and do not want to upset my parents to make them get me a pregnancy test because i cant drive. i just don't want to upset them until the time comes cause watch i probably am pregnant cause im the most unlucky person ever
2006-09-20 08:43:55 · 15 answers · asked by alexa 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
also i have NO symptoms what so ever. would i have felt symptoms by now if possible coception was the 5th of august?
2006-09-20 08:45:16 · update #1
i just cant relax .. i keep thinking im pregnant i just dont know why its not coming i wish it would! i really wish it would just come you don't know how much better i would feel :[ why do i hate my life
2006-09-20 08:54:51 · update #2
this is the first time doing anything with a guy .. im not a skank or whore or whatever you would like to call me. im a straight A student and worried about this because it was my first time ever engaging in ANYTHING like this
2006-09-20 08:56:26 · update #3
It doesn't sound like you would be pregnant. You're probably late because of stress.
Please let me urge you to wait until you're married to have sex. You obviously aren't ready for a baby.
2006-09-20 08:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by cldb730 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still young enough that your body might be skipping periods here and there, even if you've always been very regular, it can happen. You might need to see a doctor, tell your mom that you would like to go to the doctor because your period isn't regular (don't say you missed a period, it might freak her out.) Just explain that you want to make sure there isn't a reason why your periods don't always come on time. You can also let her know if you have really bad cramps or heavy bleeding, both are good reasons to see the doctor. You are old enough that you should be seeing a doctor for PAP Smears each year, so hopefully it won't scare your mom too much. If she does freak out and ask if you are sexually active, be honest and tell her you are still a virgin. Honesty is your best bet here.
2006-09-20 08:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by S. O. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Semen can live quite a while, and you could be pregnant if there was even a bit on his finger. However if you got your normal period after that and it was heavy you shouldn't be pregnant.
I think your worrying about it could make you late. If you don't have it by the end of this week, you should get a test and tell your mother. And let this be a lesson to you, be careful, you're 15 and way to young to be a mother, besides it's terrible to be constantly waiting for your period. Stay away from guys for a while and if you still have to do it, I can't imagine why, use a condom for health protection and go get yourself on the pill.
2006-09-20 08:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you know that stress can cause belated periods? My advice is to tell your parents that your cycle isn't regular, and that your hormones are out of wack. Ask them to take you for a checkup with a GYN. This is about the time that you should have your first visit anyway. Ask your doctor if birth control pills will help you with your irregularity/pms. Your mom may freak out at this, but your doctor can explain the benefits of using birth control to control your period. This is not a free license to fool around, mind you. Please remember that you can still get pregnant even when using contraceptives. Be careful!
2006-09-20 08:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by morecowbelljim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, calm down. You being so upset is just making your period later and later. Just take a deap breath and your not pregnant. I think that after about a couple weeks, of you not worrying you will start. If you don't then you need to tell your Mom you are late. You don't have to tell her about the "no sex contact". But you will need to visit an OB if you are real late; getting put on the birth control pill will help regulate your cycles.
2006-09-20 08:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by GreeneyedCowgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't had intercourse I wouldn't worry about it. Different things can cause your period to be late. You may just have irregular periods too. I did when I was younger...until I had my first child actually. I never knew when to expect my period they were that irregular. You chould be stressed about somethings esp this and that can certainly cause your period to be delayed. I wouldn't worry about pregnancy unless you've had unprotected sex or a good amount of sperm got by the opening of your vagina (and even with that it would be hard to become pregnant). Hang in there and try to relax.
2006-09-20 09:19:39 · answer #6 · answered by ktpb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not pregnant. At your age your period can be quite irregular. This can be frustrating. Pregnancy is not something that should be concerning you, however you may want to think about limiting your boyfriends to contact only above the clothes. That way, you won't have this worry again in a few months.
2006-09-20 08:50:02 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Strain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, dear, your period is probably just late, as would not be unusual for a girl your age. HOWEVER, why are you even engaging in sexual contact at your age? And yes, if a boy is diddling with you then that IS SEXUAL CONTACT. And contact with the genitalia is SEXUAL CONTACT, NOT JUST intercourse, no mater what you kids like to think. Stop diddling around and concentrate on school and your life ahead. You certainly don't want to go through this kind of angst every month, I hope!
2006-09-20 08:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
your not pregnant if your still a virgin. you cannot get pregnant by being fingered.your body is probably upset from a foreign object being in there and now is stressed which can hold off your period.take some time to relax. if you didn't have sex your not pregnant.
2006-09-20 08:49:09 · answer #9 · answered by rose45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not possible to be pregnant. Unless he was masterbating and happened to get semen on his hands and then touched you down there with the same hand right after. Its very highly unlikely for you to be pregnant. Sounds like you need to be on birth control if you are going to be doing anything sexual or even close to sexual.
2006-09-20 08:49:30 · answer #10 · answered by sweetangelgreeneyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋