i met this guy thru net and we became friends.then after a month a told him how i feel about him.i thought everything was ok.but one day he left me a message that he just want us to be friends,that he was scared and i dnt know why.i was really hurt coz i thought he feel the same way too.we're still friends right now but im still hurting coz i fall for him so much.should i still stay as friends to him? im really confused...
2006-09-20 08:35:48 · 6 answers · asked by nice girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well you should respect his feelings, if he just wants to be friends then he just wants to be friends, maybe he likes you the same way you like him but he just not might be ready... You should just wait it out a little... And if he told you he was scared there might be something bothering him about going into a relationship, so don't ask upfront, but see if there are ways you can do to get him to open up with you about why he is scared, and if you find out it will be easier for you to understand why he is scared for a commitment... I think it will all work out just give it a little time... Good luck.
2006-09-20 08:42:25 · answer #1 · answered by cremedelacreme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act like normal friends and and do different types of flirty things and maybe he'll start to fall for you to.
2006-09-20 15:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by Regan M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey! did u actually meet him or is it just thru the net?
2006-09-20 15:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by trexen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST BECAUSE YOU LIKE HIM DOESN'T MEAN HE OWES YOU ANYTHING.
BACK OFF, FIND YOUR OWN GUY WHO DOES LIKE YOU.
CREATE SOME DISTANCE FROM THE 'JUST FRIENDS' GUY AND GIVE HIM THE GIFT OF MISSING YOUR COMPANY.....
2006-09-20 15:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must move on. Put yourself out there and find someone else.
2006-09-20 15:48:54 · answer #5 · answered by The Masked Marauder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why you are confused? Leave him, I am here for you. Come on.......................
2006-09-20 15:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by asru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋