there is this guy named omar in the 8th grade at my school who wants to go out with me and i am in seventh. But yesterday, my friend told me that this girl said that he had no taste to like a girl as ugly as me. i felt like crying when i heard that because up until then i felt like a really pretty girl. when i heard that my self-esteem dropped wayy low. i had already told him that i thought of him as just a friend but he is really cute and a lot of girls like him. on top of that they found a gun in his locker even though it wasn't his everyone said i was going out with a criminal. ( the gun was another 8th graders who knew his locker combonation and tried to blame the gun on him) what should i do??? i am so confused! i am not going out with him b.t.w.
2006-09-20 08:24:42 · 15 answers · asked by *S*E*X*Y*e* 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i do like him... alot~ but it wasn't just one girl saying that... it was going all around that he had bad taste.
2006-09-20 08:30:36 · update #1
but the girl that said that is really gourgeous.. and everyone likes her.
2006-09-20 08:31:58 · update #2
find a boy who like you
2006-09-20 08:29:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are in 7th grade, quite too young to be "dating" exclusively. Slow down chick. Second, those who shot your self esteem down have greater esteem issues than you. Beauty isn't exclusive to looks alone, beauty is a total package, looks, personality, honesty, integrity, charity etc... the list could go on. Do not let a few jealous people affect your esteem so. You are of infinite worth and special. Third, How do you know the gun wasn't his? even if it wasn't you'd be better off just being a friend. He obviously has some friends and qualities that would make him questionable. Remember you can be guilty by just being around people like that if things turn criminal and having a gun at school is definitely criminal. You've made a good decision not to go out with him. You just be a 7th grader, a pretty one at that, and when the time is right the right person will come along and treat you the way a lady should be treated. Hang in there 7th Grade.
2006-09-20 08:34:40 · answer #2 · answered by swomedicineman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to lay off him for a while. I think that you are liking for trouble. He says the gun is not his, but possession is 9/10th of the law. I would suggest you find another boy to like. And just so you know if another girl said your ugly, its because she is jealous. I bet you are really pretty. Everyone used to tell me that, but guess what, now I am a model. I weigh 125 and am 5'8" . They used to make fun of me all the time too. Just make sure you graduate, so that when you go to your 10 year high school reunion you can go in a Limo and have a really HOT guy on your arm.
2006-09-20 08:31:26 · answer #3 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl most likely said that you were ugly as she is jealous, since this guy is good looking and likes you not her she feels like the ugly one and wants to take it out on you. So don't feel bad about it, you should feel proud that someone has to slate you to make them feel good - I'd laugh at her if it were me she was calling ugly. I wouldn't worry about the gun thing, that type of thing usually sorts itself out. What I don't get is why you care about that so much if you only like him as a friend, maybe you like him more then you think. Can't really help there, you are the only person who can make YOUR mind up. Best of luck!
2006-09-20 08:30:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In junior high/middle school, people are really mean. I am a freshman and I have been thru all of that. Whoever said that about you really wanted to go out with him, and since you were, they needed something else to say so they could draw attention to themselves. As far as the people saying you were dating a criminal, just give a response like: Well, I like bad boys!
Just throw something at them that will throw them offguard and you will have the upper hand. Good luck and I hope I helped!
2006-09-20 08:30:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy in seventh grade, too. I hear of stories similar to this everyday. Ignore that girl who called you ugly. I'm sure you are beautiful. She's probably jealous of you or something like that. I have a girlfriend, and to us the only thing that matters is that we are happy. The only thing that gets in the way of our relationship is other people criticizing us for being together and how they thing we are doing such a terrible thing (We are together for about a year now.)
My advice to you is to go out with him if you feel that's what is right. Feel happy that you were asked out by a cute guy. Ultimately it is your decision, but whatever you decide to do, just remember one thing: what other people think of you is their business and not yours.
2006-09-20 08:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are that she's jealous that he likes you and not her. Don't let her tell you how to feel about yourself. If you think you are pretty, than you are. You don't have to look like a supermodel to be attractive. Obviously boys think you look okay, if they want to go out with you. Try to remember that being confident in yourself is very attractive to the opposite sex. The more you believe you are pretty the more the boys will too. This girl probably doesn't think very highly of herself (even if she makes everyone think she does) and she's putting you down to make herself feel better. Blow her off, she's not worth your time or your worry.
2006-09-20 08:34:42 · answer #7 · answered by S. O. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wanted to go out with u, so he doesn't think that u r ugly. Have some self esteem. Every1 is pretty . On the inside or the outside. that's just gossip........ good luck. U r pretty. Remember. Always have self esteem
2006-09-20 09:07:39 · answer #8 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously that girl isn't your friend & is really jelous of you & your looks. I'm sure you're beautiful. If you like this boy, go out with him. If you don't, then don't. Don't just go out with someone because they like you, or their more popular. All that could happen is you'd get hurt. Figure out what you want & do it, and get some new friends.
2006-09-20 08:28:47 · answer #9 · answered by jamieinreno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 05:31:38 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to her. The girl probably likes that boy and wishes she was you and she seems snobby so even if you aren't as goggeos as her w/e! He likes you right? You can say to the boy that you were nervous but you do like him and would like to go out with him! If you don't, the opportunity will pass and that girl might get to go out with your man! So cheer up! Your as beautiful as you act!
2006-09-20 09:03:43 · answer #11 · answered by Keys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋