i called my x and asked if i could pick up my daughter she said yes and when i was on my way she called me back and said no cause she didn't finish her lunch and i asked if i could stop by for a few minutes to see my daughter and she still said no do you think she s mad cause i don't say anything cause my x has a boyfriend
2006-09-20 08:08:42 · 13 answers · asked by dan b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A visit with your daughter should not be considered a"treat" for her, even if it seems that way to her.
Whether she finished her lunch or not, your visit should not have been cancelled.
Whether your ex has a boyfriend or not, your visit should not be cancelled.
I think you and your ex-wife need to sit down and iron out visiting expectations with your daughter, so things like this won't happen.
2006-09-20 08:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by Nosy Parker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget your Ex, forget her boyfriend...If your are that little girl's daddy, then she needs to be the focus. Do you have court ordered visitation or custody arrangements? If so, you need to enforce what the court has ordered. The courts said I get my girls 1/2 the time and you can bet your bottom dollar that I have them at least that much. The children need to know they are important to you and that you will not allow your time with them to be taken away from you. Go get your girl unless the court says you can not...if the court says you can't for some reason, go back to court and let the judge know what is going on and as for the judge to make a new ruling... Don't give up on the little girl...
2006-09-20 08:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but maybe it is time for a formal visitation agreement via the family courts. Your daughter needs to know that both parents are involved in her life. I commend you on the fact that you are man enough to overlook the fact that your ex has a new boyfriend, but if she is behaving like this it sounds to me like she is using this guy to make you jealous, becareful of this it could backfire on you even though you are the grown up and she seems to be a little immature because your daughter could get stuck in the middle.
2006-09-20 08:14:49 · answer #3 · answered by osu2720@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares. The important thing is that you have a right to visit with your daughter. You may need to get an attorney if you do not have a written custody agreement in place.
2006-09-20 08:11:01 · answer #4 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is expecting to get a different reaction out of you and is using your daughter as a pawn. That is just sad.
Do you have a written agreement on visitaton , if not I suggest you get one.
2006-09-20 08:11:38 · answer #5 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is called immaturity. Why do people treat kids like property? Kids want to see both parents, usually. To deny your daughter the right to see you is being selfish on her part.
2006-09-20 08:11:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your "x" still has feelings if she is short and angry with you at all. I've learned that people over a relationship are able to be nice to the "x". It's when you still have the feelings running wild that you cant control your emotions. Something to ponder.....
2006-09-20 08:18:05 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the sake of ur daughter just dont say anything...useless fights not good for kids
2006-09-20 08:14:32 · answer #8 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow-- if this is how you communicated during your marriage, it's no wonder you're divorced!
What, exactly, do you want to call and say to her?
If you have a court mandated visitation, you should enforce it. If not, you should get one.
2006-09-20 08:12:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does'nt matter you have a right to see your daughter...I'd take it to court if I were you....Don't give up your right to see your kid...trust me it'll be important to her one day.
2006-09-20 08:23:38 · answer #10 · answered by Boo Boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋