After my wedding a few years ago, I had a falling out with my bestfriend of 6 years. She always was trying to control me. She even tried to control whom I was friends with. I finally stood up to her, and told her that I would not let her treat me like this anymore. She got real mad and nasty, trying to turn things on me, until I hung up on her and would not take her nasty calls. She then preceded to group email mean, nasty emails about me to our group of friends making me look like the bad guy, while saying horrible things about me. Now, after a year I started to miss her, crazy I know. I saw her out one night and she tried to start with me in front of allot of people. She ended up embarrassing herself, by looking so desperate and young. I took the high road. The next day she emailed me saying how hurt she was, and how she cried for a month after I broke ties with her the year prior. Now she's getting married next weekend, and I feel so sad that I’m not apart of it.
I miss her...
2006-09-20 08:04:35 · 4 answers · asked by sugaree 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Unless you are invited to the wedding there is nothing you can do.
2006-09-20 08:07:43 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a falling out with a friend about a year ago and it was because she was telling lies on me an my boyfriend, til this day she still is telling lies. The best thing for you to do is to leave her be I know you miss her like crazy but their is a possibility she can stab you in the back again in the near future.Since she didn't invite you to her wedding still be the bigger person and tell her congratulation.
2006-09-20 08:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by cmsimmons1982 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends can last forever - but only if you can forgive and tolerate the not so perfect moments. If you can and she can, maybe ten years from now you will be there for each other with the next round of life issues - and I assure you, that is rare and beautiful. Try to see if you and her have changed so much in growing up that you are no longer compatible - if you are then leap in with all you've got.
2006-09-20 08:17:11 · answer #3 · answered by Justwishin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter that your not been invited to the marriage.. but you have been betrayed by your loved one.. sure if you get back on with her , you will have a dark feel whether she will do it again or not.. its better you be yourself..
2006-09-20 08:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋