I have just recently got my fiance pregnant and we plan to marry very soon. I just moved out of my parents house shorter than a month ago. I am 19 and the girl I plan to marry is 18. How do I break the news to them about the baby and the marriage without having them freakout. Keep in mind...we have already moved in together (for not that long), I already have the ring, we have a good doctor and medicade to take care of us. Give me your opinions please.
2006-09-20 07:59:15 · 6 answers · asked by limpkornrock7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Start off by telling them that the two of you are in love , and that you are working together to make solid plans to care for this child .
Tell them because they were such good parents that you want their input and help .
2006-09-20 08:14:05 · answer #1 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes not showing yet is she? This is what i would do.Before jumping into telling your parents right now. Go with your fiance and see your parents as much as you can. Get a good relationship, show them that this girl your with you love so much.Invite them over to your house make supper and treat them well, they will treat you and this girl well too. Once a few times after you two get well connected again..and i mean very well. Than about a month tell them that this girl is everything to you and you want to be with her and marry her. They might not like it at frist but give them time they will handle it, and accept it. Than after not too far by but enough time for them to really accept that you are happy and she makes you happy get them over and tell them that you two are excepting. I am sure they will be happy that at least you two will be married by the time the baby arrives, and even though they will be a bit dissapointed in the whole to early to be getting married, they will need time to adjust to this new news and than they will come around. Tell them thay you both love them so much, and hope they will be there and give their support. Dont worry time will make them realize that they will have no choice but to deal with this and if not than they wont have a part in their sons or grandchilds life till they do. Good Luck, you dont even need it because i know they will end up understanding...they just want whats best for you, and realize later that this is whats best...even if it takes them a few months...they will come to their right mind! Congrads on the new baby and the marraige..happy for yous both!
2006-09-20 08:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with yourself...don't just marry her for the baby... I hope you love her...tell your parents what's going down...it's not like they can stop it..
2006-09-20 08:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by D.E.O.N. Sphinxxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. Parents appreciate honesty more than anything else.
2006-09-20 08:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by tear streaked angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every body in the room who is NOT a grandparent, take one step backward... NOT SO FAST, YOU TWO!
2006-09-20 08:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by lmcbuilder 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell them that you guys are happy and that the proof of your love is on its way!!!!please mention your HAPPY and thats all that matters good luck
2006-09-20 08:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by tracywendy2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋