okay me and my husband are 20/21yrs okay at this age I figure we should have a great sex life. I was wrong I'm in the mood more while he say he can go monts without,he say he don't get the urge, and when we do he come to fast I get mad and he say its not his fault that its so sentive ok he was to the doctor the other day and he told him about this and the doc said that when he got circumcise it was cut wrong and his pee hole was too big and it is that's why he comes to fast on don't always have the urges he said I was just fine due to the age, what do y'all think, he told me before he was thinkin he had a problem but I figure he was lying and he was just me
2006-09-20 07:45:20 · 15 answers · asked by Latashia S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you love him work this out. if it means getting out the lotion and working on him then do it. if it means waking him in the middle of the night because he is in your mouth then do it. if it means renting porn movies do it. talk, touch pay attention. you are a woman you can handle this just do not quit. teach him what your sex drive means to him. he'll just love you more for it.
2006-09-21 07:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by Vivian Vixen 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 04:36:39 · answer #2 · answered by schnetter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you berated him about his sexual dysfunction is the reason why he is not interested. who wants to deal with that?
You should have been a loving wife and asked what you could do to help him or what you might have done to cause the problem.
What would you do if your husband told you that you are not sexy enough. Would you want to have sex with him? how about if he told you you were fat?
Treat him with respect. Getting mad during sex will kill the drive and it did in you husbands case.
Apologize to him and stand by him in his future course of action to make things better in your sex life. Don't be so mean.
I suggest you have your husband see a different urologist (that's a doctor who among other things specializes in potential issues with your husbands penis or it could very well be psychological no thanks to you).
If I have offended you, good. Now go apologize to your husband.
2006-09-20 10:46:00 · answer #3 · answered by Martin M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually men don't really hit a sexual peak until between the ages of 25 to 35. My husband and I are both in our 40's and while I still love sex he just can't keep up. Your husband might be embarassed by this problem and might feel that he is not pleasing you try foreplay before and after sex that might help both of you. good luck.
2006-09-20 07:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by osu2720@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your married to my husband.
;P
My husband and I are 20 and we have sex like... once a month... and its usually fast... I think your husbands just making excuses regarding that circumcision thing... is it possible that he is just tired from working? Are you on birth control? He may be afraid of getting you pregnant or perhaps doesnt enjoy the feeling of condoms...
2006-09-20 07:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Umm.... i think u should punctuate ur sentences.
Secondly, i hve never heard abt that b4. Most guys come fast mainly because they r excited. Get another doctors opinion.
goodluck!
2006-09-20 07:51:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not ok. Guys like to have sex as often as they can. Many men *** quick so that is not unusual. What is unusual is that he doesn't like sex or want it that much. That is not normal for a man!
2006-09-20 07:55:55 · answer #7 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to get to class and stop playing on the computer miss Homeroom/5th Period.
2006-09-20 07:49:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not you. I have heard of this happenning before! He just has a low sex drive, which can be fixed, but you have to work at it!!
2006-09-20 07:52:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha ha ha ha! Now wouldn't this be something if it were actually true? Fix the grammer and you should receive an "A" in creative writing.
2006-09-20 07:51:17 · answer #10 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋