im the smartest in the class and im trying to make her crush for me but I dont succed please help!
2006-09-20 07:42:57 · 18 answers · asked by alex_stk_rapper 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
don't try so hard. just relax, you are the best, be the best.
2006-09-20 07:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by XT rider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being the smartest in the class isn't going to mean a thing when it comes to girls' liking you. All you can do is be nice, talk, and see if it seems like she's getting to like you.
Other than that, there's not much you can do. People like who they like when it comes to having crushes.
If you've kind of liked her for a while, but it looks hopeless just forget about her and look for someone else to be interested in.
(By the way, for the record, you may get the best grades in the class; but it doesn't mean you are the most intelligent. There is the chance the girl you like may actually be more intelligent than you are but not let it show, because girls do that. The fact that you felt it was important to mention that you're "the smartest in the class" would lead someone to think you think you either believe that will win over someone's admiration or else believe it must be a problem when it comes to who will like you. Neither is true. In fact, I hate to say this, but when it comes to people young enough to be in school sometimes looks are the thing that either make or break a crush.)
2006-09-20 07:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend first... if you like her that much a friendship is a good place to start... do your homework... pay attention to the things she does and says... and notice the little things... guys don't spend enough time in the "getting to know you". Since you share a class, maybe you could do a group project with her..or catch her after class and talk about the lessons for an ice-breaker. Ask her to an upcoming event just as friends, no pressure there. It might be fun. Opportunities are created every day and as a guy the start up pressure is on you. If you aren't good with words in person, write it down in a note. Keep it simple. And remember Compliments go a long way. As long as you're honest you have nothing to regret or be ashamed of. If all else fails inlist her to help you with something... or make that the ice breaker.
2006-09-20 10:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by chance_ghost 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't brag. Girls hate that. I should know.
Don't be obsessive and smothering. It's annoying to have a guy sitting next to you trying to start a conversation when you are trying to study.
Don't stare at her.
And most of all: DON'T TRY TO BE SOMETHING YOU AREN'T
You said that you are the smartest in the class, offer her help on a tough problem. Don't make her feel stupid about it though. Find something you have in common and go with it.
Good luck!
2006-09-20 07:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by epitome of innocence 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, i dont know why it works like this but most girls/women are attracted to " bad boys ". It sound like if you are the smartest kid in your class then she probably thinks you are a nerd and does not need you to ruin her rep by dating you. My advise to you is try to get your PIMP game up and if you need help with that get your eyes off the books sometimes and look around. If Flavor Flav can get 10 girls embrassing themselves over him on televison chances are that you can have the same happen for you...One
2006-09-20 08:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by DERRICK R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alex, it's time that you were told one of those "secrets" that everyone knows.... You cannot MAKE someone else like you, or love you. That's why so many people are so frustrated with their relationships.
What you can do is treat her like a lady. Girls appreciate that. A compliment or two never hurts ("You have such pretty hair"), and always being your charming self.
Keep smiling, you'll get there. :)
2006-09-20 07:56:29 · answer #6 · answered by Peanut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just chill out and slow down. You might be coming across as needy and that is a turnoff for most women. Then again maybe you are not meant for each other and you should move on with your life. Good luck
2006-09-20 08:15:50 · answer #7 · answered by jetfighter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the people who have said that you can not make one like you. No matter what you will do in the end you will fail. Just be yourself and relax. Tell her your feelings for her and see how she responds. If you make it your goal to make her like you, you may succeed for a while but in the end you will be miserable and fake. There is a limit on how much you can act to please people. If you want to please people to make them like you, you may succeed but you will end up hurting yourself. This is because you will be acting something you are not and you will eventually get tired and sick of it. Be yourself man. Peace
2006-09-20 08:06:42 · answer #8 · answered by deniçà 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone said it first, but I need to repeat it... you can't MAKE anyone like you. If she doesn't like you, the best thing you can do is move on. The worst thing you can do is to continue to pursue her. This will end up making her like you less and feel uncomfortable around you. Accept that you can just be her friend. Who knows, the mature decision to move on just make get her attention!
2006-09-20 07:52:30 · answer #9 · answered by boggin828 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way, friend. If she isn't attracted to you no amount of fortune or fame is going to cause her to be. Look for someone who has an "eye" for you. You'll be better off than being obssessed with someone who isn't interested in you.
2006-09-20 07:53:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl seeks the utmost confidence in a guy. Oh and uh, just from experience, she won't be with you for long if you have nothing to offer her (ie. transport, your own residence, a well paying job, etc.) Girls like guys with responsibility.
2006-09-20 07:48:53 · answer #11 · answered by daikentana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋