my heart is broken i i just dont seem to be able to put it back together!!!??? help?? =(
2006-09-20 07:37:12 · 14 answers · asked by *********** 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sureno1????
2006-09-20 07:47:31 · update #1
let time heal what happened
its ok to refresh everything, the memory but never allow it to deterioriate yourself.
if a door closes, a bigger window opens.
2006-09-20 09:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by yfort 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time alone heals all our sorrows. So right now your heart may be broken but just be patient don't try to find someone to heal your broken heart so quickly. Give it some time to get over that other person and in due time you will be able to move on and form new relationships. Remember you are not the only one with a broken heart, just maintain a good attitude and dont live in sorrow for the rest of your life. So let it go and dont rush anything, let time take care of you. Alll the best and goodluck.
2006-09-20 14:46:30 · answer #2 · answered by blacks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. There is NOTHING like the pain of a broken heart. Been there before & currently there now. Sadly, there are always MANY causes. Although everyone has several ideas on how to feel better, the only sure paths I have found have been time & prayer. Talk it out. You are NOT alone!!!
2006-09-20 15:14:51 · answer #3 · answered by Horseplay#9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy sweety... healing hearts takes time.. trust me though it is for the better... you need to find the part of you that came out when you were in love and cling to that part... then you will realize that it was not necessarily the person that made you feel good when you were in love but it was the way that you acted when you were in love... the way you wanted the best for someone ... the way you did positive selfless things for someone just because.... then you will realize that you don't need another person to be happy all you need is LOVE in your heart live every day with a positive mindset and look for and find the best in everyone.... but more importantly look for the best in you... you sound like such a sweet heart and it is breaking MY HEART to hear you talk about your broken heartedness... just know that there are good people out there that want the best for you like you want the best for others and suddenly the world won't seem so cold... lots of love girl christian
2006-09-20 14:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by scottishchristiansen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know what happend to you but I can pretty much understand how you feel. I guess the best thing for you to do is to just understand that things happen for a reason, you have to go throught his pay or this obsicle to get stronge, wiser. I know it hurts but in the long run you'll realize that it might of be the best thing that could've happen. I mean things happen for a reason. Just try to maintain a positive attitute. I mean think that there's people who are suffering more than you because of hunger, a death, disease, etc. just be strong and don't live your whole life being sad. Do things that make you happy, think positive and you'll get by somehow. Good luck
2006-09-20 14:45:10 · answer #5 · answered by Maria A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand a *broken heart* far to well. I just went through it myself. And from time to time I still feel the pains. I am going to tell you what I remind myself everyday. People come and go in our lives for all different reasons. We may not understand and it does hurt, but it is all apart of life's growning experience for us. This is not the first time you have lost a lover in your life, there have been others before him, you survived those others, and you WILL survive him. Life is too short for us to dwell on what we *had* and what we don't have anymore. Your future love is waiting for you and has been for quite sometime. You and me and the rest of the world, we go through relationships weeding out the *bad* or the *not the ones* until we are with the *one*. Take with you the good and the bad from this passing relationship, and remember, you were in his life and you did and you were, who and what he needed you to be, and he was what and who you needed him to be. Its time to move on and feel good that you know that you are *good* and that your love, your true love, is out there and waiting to be with you. Life is full of learning experiences and we live through them all, one way or another. Your going to be just fine.... he isn't the one for you, and your not the one for him. I know you can pull it together, you just have to see yourself in a new light, and see your life with him for what it was, the good times, the bad times, and the gift that both of you were to eachother when you needed eachother the most. Its time to let go and move on. Letting go gets easier, its hanging on that keeps the hurting alive. Blessed be..........
2006-09-20 14:55:09 · answer #6 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Lily my name is mike and I would love to chat with you . My heart has been broken also and it has taken me 2 years to pick up the pieces but you can do it . You can IM me at michael_sparks47@yahoo.com if you would like
2006-09-20 14:43:11 · answer #7 · answered by michael s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
over time the pain lessens and you'll be able to find someone who can put your heart back together
2006-09-20 14:39:08 · answer #8 · answered by carissa b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will get back together. It just takes a while and it will probably still have a few cracks in it when it's done. It takes time.
2006-09-20 14:39:40 · answer #9 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can talk to me im 15 almost 16 ive had my heart broken before but it did heal yours will heal you can email me at orachelo08@yahoo.com
2006-09-20 14:48:01 · answer #10 · answered by rachel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋