2006-09-20 07:33:28 · 49 answers · asked by Lilu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
varies anywhere from less than 1 to 4-5... on avg i'd say i get me some only about once per week... <<
been married 12 years. i wanna go back to the first year when it was pretty much every day.
sheesh seeing all these high numbers is making me feel even more miserable about my own marriage than i already was. :(
2006-09-20 07:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by Roger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with my husband for almost 5 years and we've been married for a little over a year. We started out like jack rabbits doing it about 2-3 times daily. After about 6 months that went down to about once a day. Now I would say we are at anywhere from 4-7 times a week.
The question that you are asking is what is "normal". That's all about what you feel comfortable with. Don't feel like you are a bad girlfriend/fiance/wife if you don't want to do it that often or want to to it too much. Talk to you significant other, if he's genuinely happy about the amount of times "it" occurs a week then that's all that matters. Communication is key! Good Luck!
2006-09-20 07:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by Julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had sex with my man everyday sometimes 2 or 3 times a day for up to 4 and a half years...everyone is different...so it is kinda hard to say. Some people have to have sex all the time while others can have sex maybe 2 times a week and be ok.
2006-09-20 07:35:50 · answer #3 · answered by kikosgirl83 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been with my boyfriend for a year and 7 months. he is 39 and I am 37. We have sex around 4 or 5 times a week but it is usually in clumps. No sex for three days then two or three times a day. if it were up to me, it would be twice a day.
Now, if w are talking the "BJ", he would like those 50 times a week.
2006-09-20 07:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by cici 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my first marriage which lasted 18 years, we had it more often in the beginning and less and less as time went by. I made a poor choice. I know this. In my second relationship, It's endless, creative, wonderful and at least 6 to 7 days a week. Sometimes more if you count the little one sided encounters that we enjoy springing on each other. I love planning for him. I get as much back. It pays to take your time when choosing a mate in every sense of the word. I'm in my early 40's.
2006-09-20 07:39:31 · answer #5 · answered by Night Wind 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on Lifestyles you share, Work Loads and Stress related Levels-This will dictate how many times!
If you both enjoy each other physically-then every Night!
If you both feel you have to - then 2 times a week!
Love is the major factor as well as Being happy with each others Bodies and Sexuality !
2006-09-20 07:39:02 · answer #6 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the couple and how they feel that week. Sometimes you may not have sex for weeks on end and sometimes you may not be able to get enough of each other. I would say at least once a week would be normal.
2006-09-20 07:36:04 · answer #7 · answered by Little Flower 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First marriage (We were together 8.5yrs married almost 3) got to where it was once a week or less, but that really wasn't a good "normal" relationship. Now its about 5-7 times a week.... There can be days w/o, but there are days for multiple times. Much better :)
2006-09-20 07:53:40 · answer #8 · answered by tattooed_te_leigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on the couple. Whenever we feel like it my wife and I have sex.If one of us is not in the mood then we don;t have it. It can vary from 4-5 times a week to once a month. We have been married for 12years and I am 12 years older than her.
2006-09-20 08:52:46 · answer #9 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 - 2 times a week if not more. We have been together for 10 years and married for 5 of that.
Though I still look back on the days of everyday and more often than not more than once a day... but kids and work have a way of getting in the way...
2006-09-20 07:40:55 · answer #10 · answered by g m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well we've been living together for 6 months and we usually have sex 3-4 times a week
2006-09-20 07:35:02 · answer #11 · answered by ~*Katie*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋