do you still have the butterflies or a feeling of sadness when you hear your lover's fave song, see their fave thing, smell the perfume s/he used to wear, etc
how do you deal with it
i hate it 'cause it makes me long for something i can't have
thanks
2006-09-20 07:19:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
it always evokes a fond memory for me... I guess I don't hate it cuz I like what I have now even better....
2006-09-20 07:21:05 · answer #1 · answered by Andy FF1,2,CrTr,4,5,6,7,8,9,10 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes i still get all that n feel it a lot but as long as i think that hes happy n he got his own life now with someone else that feeling stops because we cant get everything we want in this life i know it kills sometimes but what to do n i always have faith in another day n if u wanna kill that feelin just get busy in anything n change the song or call ur friend n talk about anything else
2006-09-20 14:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it does hurt at times when out of the blue her fav song gets played.. and u wonder y....
but then u realise that it does give u the satisfaction that u too had ur fun, but then uve gotta to move on. life's still awaitin us. who knws whts gonna be round the corner. its full of surprises. so instead of feelin melancholy feel happy bout the times that had gone by and look forward to an even xcitin future,
2006-09-20 14:38:28 · answer #3 · answered by ultimatum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think certain memoories will always flare up when things remind us of anyone we once loved. It dosnt go away, no matter how hard you try, all you can do is live each day until it may lessen a little....sorry!!!
2006-09-20 14:21:10 · answer #4 · answered by ann.natalie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really have a feeling of sadness, it just kinda remember then go on. My new love has replaced this one and ohhh so much more love to shareâ¥
2006-09-20 14:21:14 · answer #5 · answered by ♥USMCwife♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes when i smell a certain cologne i think of him. or i'll spy someone who looks like him and for a second i think it might just be. i miss him but i've already learned the lesson the universe wanted him to teach me. reminiscing is fine, dwelling is not.
2006-09-20 14:25:57 · answer #6 · answered by Charlie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel the same way even though i'm married with kids i still often think about that person and when i think that i will see the person i often get butterflies in my stomach.
2006-09-20 14:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by snoopdizzal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i still get really pi$$ed off when i hear wake me when september ends because chris is a fag
2006-09-20 14:31:39 · answer #8 · answered by AlOnEiNtHeRaIn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember my past love with good wishes for her life.
Jesus is waiting to welcome you to Heaven. Devil is waiting to torture you in Hell. Make a good choice for yourself whom to follow. Jesus loves us and died to save us humans. And whoever believes in Him will be saved. To-day is the day for salvation. Best wishes! (Please visit: www.spiritlessons.com)
2006-09-20 14:28:56 · answer #9 · answered by tmthyh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
our past is related to what we are now.we can't forget the past things that happened to us they are memories,good or bad. it is normal to remember past memories.
2006-09-20 14:27:29 · answer #10 · answered by blue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋