He is the one who asked me to leave and told me he didn't want me anymore.I want to start talking to other men(not sex)just talk,is it so soon?
2006-09-20 07:14:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You feel totally alone.
I've been there. My wife is moving out in a few weeks & I am devastated.
I find that talking with people, especially my wife helps ease the pain...that and plenty of exercise.
I figure...if I have to start meeting women again, I better get in shape.
Despite the urge to jump right in...wait. The loneliness ebbs & flows. You are very vulnerable right now.
2006-09-20 07:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by hellsbells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course its too soon god put you two into each others lives for a reason and know one is perfect. take some time apart and then try to work it out. don't bring other people into it yet you could end up doing something that you'll regret. try talking about the good times you had don't fight life is too short maybe a break is all you need. don't give up yet unless there is some sort of abuse. you to him or him to you cause if its gone that far then its probably not good for either of you. good luck
2006-09-20 14:28:21 · answer #2 · answered by wenpo0621 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Under a week and you are already willing to start looking around. You must want out too. I would think it is too early to start looking for a new companion, but if you need a friend to talk to, that's ok. Just don't lead someone on and then decide you want to get back with your ex.
2006-09-20 14:23:27 · answer #3 · answered by deep5223 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be legally separated you have to have court degree. At the moment you and husband just do not live together but you are not separated officially. You can always talk with other men, whether you are or not separated, legally or otherwise. All married women I know talk to men unless their husband is a control freak.
2006-09-20 14:22:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him than I would wait. He might just need time to cool off. IF you are serious about talking to other men then you might want to look at yourself cuz I think it is way too soon. Do you really love him? If so fight for him if it doesn't work than you know you gave it your best.
2006-09-20 14:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anna L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a friend it is understandable. It is too soon for a new relationship. The next guy will suffer for your ex's mistakes. It takes alot of time to be emotionally ready to move on.
2006-09-20 14:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happened that he asked you to leave. You must sit down and talk this over. If you still love he are you just going to give up and go. You should try and save your marriage.
2006-09-20 16:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never to soon, you probably need someone to talk to about things. Just don't let him take advantage of you. And for goodness sake don't fall in love!
2006-09-20 14:30:37 · answer #8 · answered by just1more 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's too soon to move on. Your husband was the one that booted you. Get the best revenge. Move on, find a great guy, and be uncontrollably happy.
2006-09-20 14:24:18 · answer #9 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a little time. People break up and get back together all the time, especially if it's been under a week.
2006-09-20 14:17:41 · answer #10 · answered by Erin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋