What do you do if you are in love with a man and you are married, and he belongs to 2 other women, one by his heart and the other by marriage?
2006-09-20 06:49:58 · 7 answers · asked by LadyL 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am not sleeping with him...We are talking as best friends at this point.
2006-09-20 07:08:09 · update #1
you leave that LOSER alone, because that's what he is. he's a two-timer and if you don't you will be DIVORCED soon.
2006-09-20 06:52:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It kind of sounds like you are in love with him, and he's in love with another woman-but he is also married. So he's got 3 women altogether?? Being in love and saying you love someone are 2 different things. I feel some people get married and they do not love the person they marry, but they do it anyway because of all the wrong reasons. Sounds like he has the best of both worlds--he's got a wife at home, he's in love with someone and he's sleeping with you. I am not sure what you really are saying. Personally, I would back away from him. The more you see him the worse it is going to get for you. Does he say he's going to leave the other women and get with you? Well, I've personally heard that story several times. In most cases, they never leave
but they will keep telling you that. I just recently was dealing with a man for over 4 years who kept saying he was getting a divorce. Well , everyone knows it doesn't take 4 years to get a divorce-so I had to let it go. I felt like I wasted my time. And I am sorry to say you may be wasting yours. Please don't do that. There are so many men out there.
2006-09-20 14:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by dayna64 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get your mind back where it belongs, with your own husband. Find something about your husband that you love, remember what made you want him to begin with. Start doing little romantic things for him, like cooking his favorite foods, or leaving him little notes. If you pursue this "love" you're only heading for trouble. It's not love, it's lust, and you need to practice mental control. Besides, who wants some guy who can't keep his "heart" at home, he'll just cheat on you in time. My theory is, every act starts in your mind, and if you're thinking it, it's like doing it.
2006-09-20 13:54:49 · answer #3 · answered by toomeymimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth would you want a man who already has 2 other women on the side?
Maybe your marriage isnt perfect since no one's is but stay and make it work.
2006-09-20 13:54:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
How do you fit in this relationship? Is that all you want from him, just alittle bit of his time? I believe people are only able to completely satisfiy one peson at a time. The others get the **** end of the stick.
2006-09-20 13:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by RDark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get lost when u c him again.
2006-09-20 13:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by Lovey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a divorce...duh
2006-09-20 13:53:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋