I sometimes ask my wife what sexual fantasy does she have and she tells me that she doesnt really have any or sometimes she tells me ,that she doesnt have any at all .my question is does she have any or not.i think she does and dont want to tell me or she is afraid to tell me.i dont know, please can somebody help me on this one..thank you
2006-09-20 06:45:31 · 8 answers · asked by pacu1124 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think deep down everyone has some sort of fantasy. It may be something they would not share with anyone and keep it as their secret. Maybe she doesn't want to act on it, just fantasize about it. For that reason she may not see any reason to disclose it because it is not something she would act on. Maybe she is embarrassed to tell you what her fantasy is. She might think you would think it was weird or stupid. I guess it is possible she doesn't have one, but I doubt it.
2006-09-20 06:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by Kelli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that when I am bored and not in touch with my lover, it is easy to let me mind roam. When I feel there has been plenty of foreplay and the guy is really into me, then I get turned on by his touch, kiss, ect. Be creative and make her feel special.
2006-09-20 06:50:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling her yours first, a mild one, to break the ice and help her feel more comfortable about opening up.
2006-09-20 06:49:27 · answer #3 · answered by Helzabet 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is afraid you will think she is a pervert if she tells you the truth
fantasy's are just that she don't really want to have sex with a gang of midgets
2006-09-20 06:52:29 · answer #4 · answered by ken y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife also says she does not have any. . . I guess it's possible although I sure don't know how.
2006-09-20 06:49:31 · answer #5 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is embarrassed to tell you, tell her to write it in a letter so its not so embarrassing for her. I hope it helps.
2006-09-20 06:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by grrrrme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all people have sexual fantasy's, if she says no, then take her word.and be thankful she doesn't.
2006-09-20 06:51:11 · answer #7 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how should I know
Ask her what she thinks about when she does herself. Then you'll know
2006-09-20 06:48:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋