My boyfriend that i have been with for almost a year now will not let me go with my best friend that's a girl and all my guy friends to a fair about an hr and a half away, he will flip out on me if i go! he don't want me to go but i hafta i went last yr it's like a ritual type thing and we are taking two cars and i am goin to be with my best friend anyway...we sometimes all split up..and im with my friend and all the guys go there separate ways..anyway to the question now..i have to make a good lie up where im goin to be from about 6 pm. til about 2 am. if anyone knows a good lie plz pleaze plz help me i really wanna go but i don't wanna lose my boyfriend and he can't go with cuz there is no room everyone that went last yr is goin and a couple more people...and we are only taking 2 cars so don't say take him with...
2006-09-20 06:35:10 · 16 answers · asked by M<3 J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Honey child,
if he wont let you have time with your friends, then dump him!
theres no guy worth losing friends over!
Believe me I know from experience!
Boys come and go, But your Friends will always be there!!!!
2006-09-20 06:41:26 · answer #1 · answered by brenda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT lie. This is really really just a horrible idea. Is it worth losing him when he finds out... bc he will. Just bring him along. If you aren't doing anything wrong, then bring him. If he doesn't want to go tell him you are going anyway. You aren't lying. Just asking permission is a little harder than asking for forgiveness. You are your own person. Take control of your life. Don't let someone control you.
2006-09-20 13:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by Pimp E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to live your life like this? Him being crazy-jealous when you're doing nothing unreasonable, and you having to lie about what you're doing?
Tell the truth. If he can't handle the truth, dump him. There are lots of other guys in the world, you don't need one who seeks to control your life and regularly flips out on you for no good reason.
I would recommend dumping the guy immediately, but if you don't want to do that, at least tell the truth. You don't want to build your relationship on a foundation of lies; that'll just confirm all his worst fears.
2006-09-20 13:44:11 · answer #3 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lieing will get you no where, well except the fair, and when you get back hell will break loose. Lieing is never good. Look... I am going to just say it. You have a mind of your own. And if you think you should go then go. But don't lie to him. Just think about how you would feel if he asked to go without you..Would you have reservations? Talk to him, and if he still doesn't want you to go then you have a decision to make, andthen the consiquences.
2006-09-20 13:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by purple_roses48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your boyfriend is insecure and has trouble trusting you. If you lie and you get caught he will never trust you again...and then you can forget your annual trip and maybe even lose a boyfriend. You have to be honest with him, instead of lying sit him down and tell him "Babe, I have to go to this fair you have to learn to trust me. You have no worries and I promise that I will call you and keep in touch. But if you want this relationship to remain strong if you have to let me go!"
2006-09-20 13:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to lie to him why are you seeing him? If you don't want to take him with you why are you seeing him? He sounds possessive and insecure , lying to him is going to make matters worse not better. He could find out . Talk to him . You aren't messing around on him are you? and if you are again why are you going out with him ?Either he is going to have to trust you or you two will never last . No trust , No relationship.
2006-09-20 13:49:17 · answer #6 · answered by primamaria04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the crowd is growing take another car and take him along -to lie is never a good thing!
2006-09-20 13:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lie to him just do it if he cant see you having fun as the individual you are then hes got some trust issues find out what hes doing not to trust you
2006-09-20 13:38:21 · answer #8 · answered by poconewyorkwanda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't lie because you might get caught just tell him that you're going and you don't want to do anything wrong just be with your friends. You can still make your own decisions!
2006-09-20 13:37:34 · answer #9 · answered by honey27 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not lie. You don't need promission eaither. I think you really should find a way to take him with you though. I'm sure the two of you could drive down... jmo though...
2006-09-20 13:40:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋