1st off it's not a problem because I am 82% Dyke but he says he is 100% straight. The thing is I talked him into letting me pop him in the back door with my strap on and he REALLY got into it. Now he wants it all the time. I tell him this means he's a h0m0 and he gets all pissed off and goes home. I think he needs to find a man so he can figure it out. As long as I don't have to watch cause 2 gurlz is cool but 2 guys is a freak show
2006-09-20 06:30:22 · 18 answers · asked by dildobait 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I did not use the term Homo as an insult. I used as short for homosexual. I have no problem with 2 guys together. In fact I encourage him to try it out to see what its like. He jkust gets awful defensive when I do.
That being said I think all lesbians (and bi-sexual women like me) secretly hate gay guys. I don't know if its opposites attract so similars repell or what. I know gay men and lesbians are often thrown together because they share a politicol agenda but most gals I know far prefer the company of chicks or st8 guys
2006-09-21 02:43:44 · update #1
It doen't necessarily make him gay....he may just love the fact that you're tickling his prostate.....however.....
my wife used to f.u.c.k. me silly with her strap-on and I loved it.... that eventually led me to the real thing (only after I had found out she cheated on me).....I am now happily bisexual and take a hard c.o.c.k. any chance I can.
2006-09-20 06:48:51 · answer #1 · answered by bimale694u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, if you do it, he's not "one of those", so set his mind at rest there unless you are purposely trying to push a button that he doesn't appreciate.
It reminds me of when I got a prostate check from the doctor. I told my wife I would really rather have a woman doctor do it. She was puzzled so I explained, "First, I enjoy doing you vaginaly most, but I also like doing you analy. If you wanted, for whatever weird reason to play around on my rearend, you would have to have your reasons, I'm not interested, but if you want then its only fair. But if any other human being is going to stick a finger or whatever up my rearend [prostate check involves reaching in to feel the prostate through the colon wall] I would rather a woman did it than a man." That said to say this, I understand, to some degree, your boyfriend's position and he's right, as you put it, "2 gurlz is cool but 2 guys is a freak show."
Wonderful commercial a while back, two football jocks, one was Terry Bradshaw, were at a sushi place. He gets handed some and then he just looks at it a moment, "Where I come from, they call that bait." There's things I can eat and things I don't even consider food that others seem to enjoy. It is the same with sex.
2006-09-20 06:44:07 · answer #2 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First off honey, the fact that YOU got him into it, is sounding like you regret it. I guess you wanted your jolly, but found his. You cannot hate for him understanding his enjoyment - or can you?
The fact that he wants you to continue doesn't make him gay. It just makes him wanting it YOUR way. After all, like I said before you gave it to him in the 'back door' for a reason - what was that reason? You may need him to understand this so he understands that it isn't really what you need or want.
I would suggest you sit down with him, talk to him, and explain that you didn't mean for it to become a 'regular event' in your love-making or sexual exploits. Inquire if he enjoys it to a point where perhaps he could have a FOURSOME / two guys AND two girls. If he goes for it, well, while he's getting his back-door filled, you can be doing other things with your fantasy partner.
Kapeesh?
Good luck
2006-09-20 06:59:19 · answer #3 · answered by bga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoying anal stimulation has nothing at all to do with being gay !!! Being gay means a guy is attracted to other men. Enjoying anal stimulation means .................. he enjoys anal stimulation !!!!!! For a lot of guys, having the prostate stimulated provides a great amount of pleasure. The other side of this may be that he enjoys the submissiveness of the situation. A lot of people enjoy playing one role or another during sex - some like myself enjoy playing both from time-to-time. My gf and I take turns being in charge. It can be an incredibly sensual experience to allow yourself to let go and let the other person be in charge.
Now your bf may be gay ............... but the fact that he enjoys anal stimulation is certainly not evidence enough to suggest that he is. My advice would be to explore taking the roles to new levels and enjoy the variety that it offers you in your sex life.
2006-09-22 06:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by mikeallen555555 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's stimulation of the prostate gland and a lot of men find it pleasurable and/or stimulating (or so I've been told, lacking one myself ;-) and right now it's new and interesting. So it definitely doesn't mean he's gay. Don't worry about it.
But do get over the idea that sex between two men is a 'freak show.' Don't watch -- it's their business anyway -- but we get enough bs from the rest of the world that we certainly don't need anymore from our own.
2006-09-20 06:57:39 · answer #5 · answered by The angels have the phone box. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let's see. By your logic then, if you use a strap-on with a girl, she secretly want's a guy, right? Wrong. It feels good to have things inserted into certain holes, ok? Get over it.
By the way, if you're a lesbian, why are you using words like 'homo' as an insult?
2006-09-20 06:44:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
He is not gay! It feels good period so appreciate it. He wants you to do it, not a guy. Being gay has nothing to do with what parts of your body you like to be stimulated, it has to do with a physical and EMOTIONAL attraction to members of the same sex. Even if he wanted some guy to try taking him on but only wanted to be with women typically and had no desire to kiss and hug or be affectionate with another man than he is still not gay.
People are so uptight. He likes it in the bung so just give it to him in the bung and be done with it.
2006-09-21 02:03:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys would enjoy that kind of stimulation whether they'll admit it or not is another thing. It does not make him gay in any way - he's wanting you to do it to him not another guy, there's a big difference.
2006-09-20 08:17:40 · answer #8 · answered by JR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this makes him very gay If he liked it with you..... What makes you think he wont get temped to try with a guy?? if he already tried the strap on he will wonder... That's nasty I wouldn't like any thing going up my behind 2 girls is very sexy but to dirty guys Yuck!! Leave him for me lol.
2006-09-20 06:49:19 · answer #9 · answered by forlifex5 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there are a lot of straighjt men who like anal stimulation ....that doent make them gay. if hes not into trying it with other guys dont force it.
2006-09-21 05:30:09 · answer #10 · answered by ajm_jr_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋