My wife of 10 years openly picks her nose in front of me, as if I'm not even in the room/car, etc.? After 10 years (plus dating), I'm used to it and not terribly bothered by it; I just find it very strange and wondered if any others had this "problem" with their spouse?
2006-09-20 06:04:15 · 18 answers · asked by Peter Piper 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This question really made me laugh!
Seriously I realize that her picking her nose in front of you is a bit gross and NOT sexy but really....is this worst you can come up with??? In my past marriage I was neglected as if I didn't exist, talked down to, treated like a second class citizen, verbally insulted regularly, criticized, humiliated, and forced to change to pls my husband. Ya needless to say I left him....but if the worst your marriage has to offer is a little nose picking I think your in luck! Next time she does it just say "oh baby that's soooo hot" in a really sarcastic voice and she will probably get the message.
2006-09-20 06:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by christine a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a bigger problem with my husband. He likes to blow his nose in his hands openly in front of me and doesn't even use a tissue. I always tell him to go wash his hands after he does that. It is really a bad habit he has and is very nasty. I know there is worse things he could be doing but it's still really gross. We have been together going on 26 years.
2006-09-20 07:49:49 · answer #2 · answered by Susie B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG...grow up people. What is the big deal so she feels very comfortable w/her husband. Lets turn the tables here, its ok for the men to be sitting in their fatman chairs and fart away and be proud of the noises they produce like they are a one man band. Or to belch w/honor at the table like they were the king of the jungle. Or to adjust themselves like they have a stallions package in their Levi's. Not to mention many of them pick their noses w/no concern to anyone else in the room or car. They act like its the off season for cotton picking. So pawleez lay off the women. Nothing worse then to have a pokey or flapper in the nostril. LMAO
2006-09-20 06:14:20 · answer #3 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I'm not a married man, but a divorced x-wife, who was married to a nosepicker. That wouldn't have really been so bad, everyone gets an itch now and then or a hanger. But he also ate it. This is no lie. Before we divorced it had been a year since I'd kissed him on the lips. Ew! Is eating snot basis for divorce? Well, yeah!!
2006-09-20 06:12:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person with manners and respect would not do what your wife does when it comes to nose picking. I was always taught that you can do it in the bathroom and then wash my hands. My husband and I both don't pick our noses, we always use a tissue and we teach our kids to do the same.
2006-09-20 06:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some things you just don't do in front of another person, even after years of marriage and picking the nose is one of them. Gross! Hand her a kleenex next time she does it - and if she asks, honestly say it's disgusting.
2006-09-20 06:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ew.... that is gross.I hope she washes her hands after wards. I would never pick my nose in front of my husband or anyone else .I think its a turn off. I guess she farts in front of you to.No class.
2006-09-20 06:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by TLC1968 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband does this constantly. I used to tell him to quit it, now I just hand him a bottle of hand sanitizer when he's done. You can't change the behavior just how you react to it I guess.
2006-09-20 06:08:01 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start picking your nose in front of her
2006-09-20 06:24:59 · answer #9 · answered by soofi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. And I don't do it either.
Familiarity breeds contempt, in a marriage as anywhere else.
2006-09-20 06:19:38 · answer #10 · answered by Hermit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋