yall think?
2006-09-20 06:02:14 · 12 answers · asked by cutie_str8_outta_va 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
A little insecure are we? Well let me tell you there is nothing you can do about a man that is going to cheat. Don't go accusing him of cheating unless he has. A man who wants to work is a good thing I don't understand why you would want different.
Just relax and be watchful
2006-09-20 06:08:04 · answer #1 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suspicion Is said to be the sign of sincere love. But Suspecting a person always means that you are not confident about the strenght of your relation.
Ask yourself and find out why is it that you think he is going to cheat on you?
Is it becuase you think that he's too good for you?
Then you should boost your self confidence. Find out and make sure he's into a relation with you coz of something you really have in you and not just bcoz he thinks that if he walks away from you he will be called a loser.
Is it based on any past experience or information?
Dont rely upon it unless its from a truly independent source.
Or is it bcoz you are too possessive about him?
Possesiveness is good but too much of anything is bad.
2006-09-20 13:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by Lord Of Lust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are being paranoid. If he truly is a sweet man, why would he cheat on you? Do you have reasons as to why you are feeling this way, or is it because he will be in contact with other people?
Unless you are rich enough to support him, he's going to have to go to work.
If your relationship is strong enough to trust him, don't worry. If not, break up now as you will always feel as if he's going to cheat on you.
2006-09-20 13:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by makawao_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a sign of insecurity honey. If you react in a non-trusting manner you are going to bug him and cause issues in your relationship which in turn will drive him straight inti the arms of another woman. When he starts working, why don't you start working too or do something with your time other than worrying about what he is doing at work, it'll drive you and him nutts.
Be unavailable and mysterious sometimes that'll keep him interested.
2006-09-20 13:07:23 · answer #4 · answered by Jazz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is hard for me to say much as u didn't give too much of a detail about your bf. could it be you may too suspicious of him? remember a relationship need a lot of trust, jealousy, confrontation, accusation, argument can kill it rapidly. so meanwhile, just let him go and concentrate in his new job and tell him how u feel if u really feel insecure. BUT only in the right time. if he really turns out to be what u said, u know the answer, unless u want to put up with a husband as such, if not, do the right thing.
2006-09-20 13:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There has to be some underlying issues at hand that makes you think that. I always say to women do not dismiss your woman's intuition. I don't know why you think having a job will make him cheat but I can only assume something has happened in the past.
2006-09-20 13:08:50 · answer #6 · answered by NICOLE J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since you already have your mind made up that he will cheat, then you're always going to be paranoid that he's cheating when he's probably doing nothing at all. you have trust issues,
2006-09-20 13:05:52 · answer #7 · answered by hermosa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he cheat? Not all men do that. You shouldn't accuse him of anything unless you have proof, unless you want to lose him.
You need to work on your self esteem.
2006-09-20 13:05:09 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What has he done to make you feel this way? Or are you just insecure. A relationship without trust is bound for failure.
2006-09-20 13:04:34 · answer #9 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you have trust issues! You need to learn to trust him or let him go, it's not fair to him.
2006-09-20 13:05:37 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋