I sometimes catch myself thinking what My GF is doing at school or if she's on line trying to hook up . Ladies sometimes you girls lie more than us , Take that back you lie better than us . So its hard for me to believe her when she says no or i wouldn't do that .? How can i test her ? By the way our ages are 27 and 28 ....
2006-09-20 06:01:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How important are you to the other one? Do you make the other feel like he/she is the best one?
Love, forgive, talk, and listen.
Hire a detective
generally If they don't ask for sex they are getting it from somebody else. Sleep with other people. that's a dead giveaway.
You dont but watch out for these signs 1. unknown #s 2. If your friend is asking to go over to her house more.
You dont know for sure unless u have proof and to get proof u have to do some snooping..
Check phone records, check cell phones, check pant pockets , wallets, jacket pockets, car's , glove compartments, show up unexpectantly at places she's staying, see if she's really there or atleast her car.. double check stories, when she tells you something wait about a week and reask the same question to see if the stories vary..
You can always get suspicious when the love making between you and your significant other diminishes. or she is spending more time with the "girls"!!! yea, whatever!!!! be observant of things she used to do for you diminish as well!!!!
Always go w/ your gut......
Deep down u know..... there are always clues.... if your asking this question, its cuz your instincts are telling you something is up, always listen to your inner voice and never let anyone tell you different.... If you are not asked to join in anything as you were before. Not being home much . not talking not acting concerned. not sleeping with you. No love talking between you . No sexual advances or suggestions!
Knowing is half the battle, so communicate better and if she's not cheating! Give your girl the benefit of the doubt. It can be a difficult life without the added stress of worrying about cheating all the time. Best advice, don't worry about something that is likely not happening. Especially if you can't control it anyhow.
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2006-09-20 06:23:18 · answer #1 · answered by Baby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to test her. Just ask her. If you dont' trust her then maybe your feelings are correct and she is cheating. Or maybe you need to realize that you have trust issues stemming from something else (like your parents or a former g/f) that you need to resolve before accusing her of cheating. Either way, communication is the key.
2006-09-20 13:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by 1big teddy graham 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have issues with trust and want to control her. You are headed for big trouble because women won't stand for that. You need to get some therapy or counseling. Without trust there is no relationship.
2006-09-20 13:06:06 · answer #3 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her don't run her off by accusing...or assuming that she is doing something that she says she isn't. Relax and trust her, and when you get the urge to not trust her, still do not confront her. The truth will always come out...you'll find out one way or the other.
2006-09-20 13:10:01 · answer #4 · answered by Chanel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if she isnt giving you any normal signs of a cheating girlfriend, then its in your head. It could be that you are guilty about something, or are insecure. You will be able to tell a difference in her if she is cheating on you. Trust her, because once the doubts come out they wont stop and it could indirectly lead to the failure of your relationship
2006-09-20 13:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by Rae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
again. a relationship needs to take a lot of trust. infact i was once in ur position as i felt so insecure when she goes online. i was very upset and threw my temper on her and her ex issue made me compare her love for him and me. frankly she does loves me although she never says no. i can only say that u know by the way she behave herself infront of u, and u can tell about her character. u tell alot of patience on this. btw, u need to balance ur life too. life isn't just about gf, u need to spare time with ur family, friends and ur priorities in life too.
2006-09-20 13:29:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey now...I as a women do not lie. Heck...your the man w/the plan..let us know what your going to do about it.
2006-09-20 13:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU HAVE BEEN BURNT BEFORE, AND YOU ARE STILL HARBORING BAGGAGE.....
DROP OFF YOUR BAGGAGE, BECAUSE IT'S TOO HEAVY TO CARRY, AND NO ONE ELSE WANTS TO HELP YOU CARRY IT. DON'T MAKE YOUR CURRENT LADY BECOME RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR BAGGAGE FROM THE PAST.
IT IS YOUR PROBLEM, NOT HERS. YOU ARE PROJECTING YOUR OWN INSECURITY ONTO HER. STOP THIS NOW, OR YOU WILL RUIN WHAT YOU HAVE WITH HER.....
2006-09-20 13:16:31 · answer #8 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you think that time is slipping by,and think that if you dont get more serious that you'll lose her. talk to her about how you feel about her with other guys,and your insecurity.
p.s i think its cute how youre protective of her, that shows how much you really care.
we need more guys like you!!!
2006-09-20 13:06:01 · answer #9 · answered by Helena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust her until she gives you a reason not to....everyone deserves the benefit of the doubt
2006-09-20 13:06:15 · answer #10 · answered by Cassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋