“in love” verses “pure love”
Pure: unfiltered, unconditional, comes with acceptance, caring, and non-judgmental. It comes to you from the giver without strings. Never wanting or needing anything in return. It is not a love that is craved, or lusted for. It is gentle, soft, always there. When this love exist between two people, they can be apart for days, months, or even years and be as connected as they had never been apart.
It’s warm, calm, happy, joyful, with feelings of inner peace.
“in love” : A temporary state of love. Can last up to 1 ½ years, but usually shorter. It is based on thirst of love, a constant need to be satisfied, but never is. Someone “in love” can never get enough and wants to be near the one they are in love with 24/7. It is a clouded state of mind.
As they say, “love is blind” the person “in love” will make decisions to please the one they are in love with even if it hurts them. At the time they do not even realize they are doing so. Only after the “in love” period is gone do they see what they have done. They do this due to the fear of losing the person and fearing losing the feelings they get while being with this person.
2006-09-20 05:48:42
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answered by Life Coach 4
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love is love, nomatter what age. I recently started communicating with my first love, and the feelings and passion are still there, seven years later. When we first met, we were too young to understand how to deal with the intensity of our feelings, but we knew that what we had was real. So, understanding all of that has made our current relationship so much sweeter! Love is something that everyone should experience at least once.
"it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all"
2006-09-20 12:42:21
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answered by KELLY 2
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A love that's just beginning.
2006-09-20 12:40:08
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answered by VeeateU 2
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Inexperienced, "puppy" love; "loving" for superficial reasons; not knowing the true meaning of love.
2006-09-20 12:41:11
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answered by Anonymous
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what you think love is before your mature
2006-09-20 12:41:05
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answered by littlebittyprettyone 2
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regrets waiting to happen!
2006-09-20 12:42:59
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answered by Sean 3
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young people in lust
2006-09-20 12:42:00
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answered by Anonymous
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That is the wonders of love!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-20 12:41:01
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answered by mustanglady 6
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IGNORANT KIDS
2006-09-20 12:40:05
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answered by nwnativeprincess 6
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