While dating my boyfriend i was sleeping 3 or4 other guys. When My roommate (who is or was my best friend) found out she told my boyfriend because they were friends. I totaly denyed it and made up some shi t about her (and now they are no longer friends) and then she kicked me out. And later my boyfriend found out the truth.
I really would like to be friends still but she won't respond to my e-mails, texts, or calls. What should i do to fix it.
2006-09-20 05:38:16 · 22 answers · asked by Rain 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i would like to be friends again. And i had to do something because i moved out of state and did not want anything going on between them. And he broke up with me and took back everything he got for me
2006-09-20 05:43:13 · update #1
theres nothing more you can do... you have broken their stust with you and completely f*cked up your friendship with them!
Learn your leason and dont do it again to your (new) friends
2006-09-20 05:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jazz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would start by appologizing to your ex. This is a prime example of how the past comes back to haunt you. Be honest with him, and tell him you really feel bad about your actions. You are better than how you have been living, and even the smallest skeletons can come out to haunt you. So, when you have told him you are sorry, and what you told him about his friend was NOT true, then you can move on to trying to mend things with her, but not until then.
When you have done all of this, then try to set up a meeting between the two of them to mend THEIR friendship first. You have hurt two people by breaking up their friendship and the only way you can right this, is by doing everything you can to fix them.
Also, the best I can tell you is to LEARN from this tangle of a mess you have created. You feel right now everything you have done is a mistake, right? But it wont be, if you learn from it and NEVER cause this type of mess again... then it will be a learning lesson and not a mistake. We all have to live and learn about certain things, and the sooner you do, the better.
Good luck to you, and next time you are in a relationship, do what you can to be both honest, and true to only them, then this mess will never happen again!
Hugs!
2006-09-20 05:55:36 · answer #2 · answered by Cutelilminxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was not really a kind thing to do, and I would not blame her if she did not speak to you, I would find it really hard to forgive as you made her out to be a liar when it was you who was lying. Write her a letter and tell her how sorry you are, and how much you wish to repair the relationship. If she does not respond then I am afraid you have lost a friend.
2006-09-20 06:05:01 · answer #3 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you caused a rift between them, I would definitely tell or email or text him the truth, that you lied to protect yourself. Hopefully this will get them to talk again. As for your friendship with your ex-roommate, I really don't see the friendship coming back. You hurt her in the worst way....trust. Not something easily earned back....
2006-09-20 05:53:22 · answer #4 · answered by raindrops 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be cheating on your boyfriend for starters. You should give them time to call down a little bit and try to fix things. But it might be irrepairable. You might have to forget about them as friends. The damage has been done.
2006-09-20 05:43:35 · answer #5 · answered by Kristen H 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave it be Honey, u were being a lying b****, and you deserve your loss. Shouldn have been so horney and sleeping around anyways. Don't you have any respect for your body!? The only way to fix is to learn to be a btter person, be faithful, honest, and loyal to friend and partner. Go see counseling to see how you can be a more honest person.
2006-09-20 05:43:03 · answer #6 · answered by ladida 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's over
2006-09-20 05:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of the word morals? You better look up the definition.
2006-09-20 05:44:53 · answer #8 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone, if she comes back as a friend then she was meant to be , if not, your lucky you found out now, we all do silly or wrong things, true friends stick with you no matter what
2006-09-20 05:42:53 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes you make a mess that can't be cleaned up. She is out of your life. Leave her alone.
2006-09-20 05:41:29 · answer #10 · answered by karen wonderful 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋