While dating my boyfriend i was sleeping 3 or4 other guys. When My roommate (who is or was my best friend) found out she told my boyfriend because they were friends. I totaly denyed it and made up some shi t about her (and now they are no longer friends) and then she kicked me out. And later my boyfriend found out the truth.
I really would like to be friends still but she won't respond to my e-mails, texts, or calls. What should i do to fix it.
2006-09-20 05:07:34 · 13 answers · asked by Rain 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She is my friend not just my old roommate and i would like to be friends again. And i had to do something because i moved out of state and did not want anything going on between them. And he broke up with me and took back everything he got for me
2006-09-20 05:16:27 · update #1
You should be ashamed of yourself, if i where your friend i would do the same thing...never talk to you again, what kind of friend are you ?? now you can't fix that...
What you should do is to analize your behavior and realize you need serious help, not just about friends, but about your whole life...if you keep going like that you'll destroy yourself and will hurt those who still love you
2006-09-20 05:10:48 · answer #1 · answered by fireangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are just out for your own needs and greeds. You made her to look a liar with your lying. How is she to know if you are not just lying about being friends to further hurt her? You will need to start considering other peoples feelings before you take actions that you will regret later.
The only think I can think to do is this. Send her a card telling her you are sorry, that you will never ever do this again, and see if she responds. In the meantime work on being a bit more loyal to the ones you supposedly love. Sorry if this seems harsh but you need to learn a bit about compassion and a bit less about passion.
2006-09-20 05:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how can you call him your boyfriend when you were spreading it around with other people? And women have the nerve to call men dogs. Did you really expect his friend/your roommate to keep the secret? Especially if he is a decent guy and wasn't doing you wrong. He!l, I would have told on you. You can kiss that friendship good-bye. You lied to your boyfriend, then lied about her and cost her what was evidently a very good friend. I don't see forgiveness in your future.
2006-09-20 05:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by maccleod1074 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't fix this. Your only hope is that your friend will reach out to you in time. The ball is in her court.
The future is what counts now. You need to change your ways and treat other people with respect and honesty.
2006-09-20 05:14:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As your boyfriend has find out the truth, accept it and apologies and also ask your girl friend (both the your boy friend) for forgiveness. and for those other guys never do anything with them if you really love your boy friend.
2006-09-20 05:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another friend. You aren't such a great friend either since you actually made some stuff up about your roomie. At least she told the truth about you.
2006-09-20 05:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will do the same to you..perhaps even more scary like getting dozen of guys to sleep with you and rapes you brutally. (Sorry this is only an illustration)
2006-09-20 05:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by Dogman 61 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, sounds like you are on the look out for a new friend, and remembe to learn from your mistakes,
2006-09-20 05:10:25 · answer #8 · answered by Dawn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't... just continue having sex with the 3 or 4 other guys... and if you want any others, let me know, you sound like fun... :D
2006-09-20 05:09:38 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a whore. You don't deserve friends. Oh, and go get checked for VD, ho-bag.
2006-09-20 05:10:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋