I live alone. I am feeling a void. I have family and friends but when they come over. I can't wait till they leave. I want to change this about myself. How can I psyche my self into changing?
2006-09-20 05:03:10 · 5 answers · asked by Spann M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You enjoy your private time and while it's ok for people to visit, they don't need to stay too long. Do things that you want, you're your own free person and sometimes visiting others is best, you decide when it's time to leave.
2006-09-20 05:11:28 · answer #1 · answered by dances_away_from_you 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we have to accept who we are. If you enjoy your private time that's ok. Learn to keep yourself busy and occupy that time with things that interest you. I am the same way. Sometimes when I go out I can't wait to get home. My hubby has to give me one day a week alone or I start to get agitated. Its ok to be like that. What you really have to work on is accepting it.
I always rented favorite movies, played on the computer, cleaned and organized, cooked my favorite meals (and experimented with cooking), took up knitting, spent a lot of time decorating, read books and played computer mystery games. Just find what you love and do plenty of it.
2006-09-20 12:16:23 · answer #2 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on whether this is a new behavior or how you've felt all along... if it's new then you may be somewhat depressed. The fact that you recognize it and want to make changes is a good indication that you'll succeed with it. Perhaps instead of them coming over, get out with them and be sure to meet up with them rather than have them in your personal space.
2006-09-20 12:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't stay home as much,get out to some clubs and start dating.the less your at home when you do go home the more you will look forward to having company.
2006-09-20 12:07:05 · answer #4 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let the family know how you feel.
2006-09-20 12:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by Daryl L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋