2006-09-20 04:45:15 · 8 answers · asked by kasy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Well you grammar appears to be off and there is not much detail here to answer, but I will give it a shot.
There are a couple of things that go along with possessiveness including jealousy and self-esteem. Rooting from the fact that you fear you are going to lose that person. As a result you try to keep them as close as possible and control them. Acting this way can build up resentment from both parties and drive you apart.
I would suggest working on your self-esteem. Maybe get on the Internet or get some books on it.
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If you love something, set it free.
If it doesn't come back, it was never yours to begin with.
2006-09-20 04:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be possessive. It's a big turn off...just remember that! If you are possessive, you WILL push the other person away in a heart beat! Just appreciate the people in your life. There are plenty to go around for us all! You can show you care about someone without being possessive. Why would anyone want to be possessive...?
2006-09-20 11:50:12 · answer #2 · answered by Goobean 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself why you are insecure when it comes to that person. What is your problem with this issue? Does it go back to childhood, were you not given the love you needed? Or were you in a house with a parent that demonstrated possessiveness and you picked that up? Whatever the answer is, I suggest you see a counselor and discuss it. Possessiveness can be a dangerous thing if carried to extremes.
2006-09-20 11:56:51 · answer #3 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being possessive over someone, usually means you're insecure about yourself & fixing that is never easy, sorry.
2006-09-20 11:49:04 · answer #4 · answered by talk2bunny 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1.Focus on yourself...do you have any insecurities lurking in the distance?
2.Go out and enjoy life there is so much out there and not enough people taking the time to take it all in!
2006-09-20 11:52:08 · answer #5 · answered by ang_172 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find other interests. Meet new people, get active in other activities, try a new hobby.
2006-09-20 11:55:33 · answer #6 · answered by jplrvflyer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new one!
2006-09-20 11:54:57 · answer #7 · answered by y u n v ME?! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move far away.
2006-09-20 11:47:47 · answer #8 · answered by c c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋