i had a relationship with a girl and i suspect that that she got pregnant on purpose when she got to the safe part of the pregnancy(12 weeks)she gave me the elbow for no reason she wont answer my calls texts or even speak to me..ive heard that she doesn't want me to have anything to do with the babys life, even though i was never bad to her in anyway..thing is she is in temporary accomadation and will move before the baby is born so i wont know where she is and i suspect i can only take legal action about seeing the baby once it born..serious answers only please
2006-09-20 04:37:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It doesnt matter what or how she got pregnant, fact is she is pregnant and its yours, and YES you can instruct a solicitor to take proceedings to get it in court and the court will HAVE to grant you responsibility too. you may have to prove your the dad, thats easy though, tests as you know.
never let a woman tell you that you cant see you child. you can. you have rights just as much as she does. and to me, it seems like she got pregnant just to get her flat quicker rather than live in hostels and bb's. trust me, tell this to the court and they will favour you from the word go, as you are the one taking it to court. go to your citizens adivce beuro thingy, sometimes before a case goes to court, they set up meetings with the both of you and advocates, they are people that talk on your behalf so you dont end up arguing and you might be able to resolve this outta court. if she can see you REALLY want to be apart of this childs life then she might let you in. but NEVER FORGET, her "letting you in" is NOT up to her. and it wont ever be up to her. if you have hit her, or take drugs or have a bad criminal record it might go agaisnt you,. well it will, but even so, the court will DEFINATELY LET you see your child.
good luck mate and i am SO SORRY for all those fucked up gal out there. too many girls these days get pregnant for the wrong reasons and use the baby as an emotional blackmail to get back at the men. never get involved with this girl again, she is messed up. make her know you are only interested iN YOUR child.
goodluck. x
ps. if the baby aint born yet, still get advice though, DONT JUST WAIT. DO NOT.
2006-09-20 04:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by london lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may Need to Legally request for a DNA test to prove the Child is Yours(Not 100% sure if that can be done during gestation).
And yes! A Lawyer will be able to argue your case-But it may well be expensive and emotionally draining!
Hope it can be resolved without all that Heartache and Stress for you both!
2006-09-20 04:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have know idea about family law you should find out with citizen advice if your in UK Or even try a family lawyer. I think if you keep phoning her this could become harrasement and you do not need this why you are trying to see your baby. Sorry that i couldn't help more good luck.
2006-09-20 04:41:12 · answer #3 · answered by jules 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't do anything until baby is born as she might deny it is yours, in which case you need a dna test anyway but you can't check dna of unborn babies.
2006-09-20 06:17:36 · answer #4 · answered by paradisefound1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 05:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and see a Family solicitor.
2006-09-20 04:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by Roxy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep you are right, there is nothing you can do till the baby is born.
2006-09-20 04:39:20 · answer #7 · answered by OriginalBubble 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-09-20 04:56:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋