He said that it would take a long time to get over me and that he loves me, but how could he already get close to someone else just in 2 weeks? We are back together again, but after he told me, i feel betrayed by his thinking even tho he swears nothing happened!
2006-09-20 04:32:27 · 26 answers · asked by Angelina 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i would tell him how i feel i feel that if u love someone its immpossible to get over them that fast!how can he say he loves you but also get close to another girl u need to tell him that obviously he doesnt love you if within 2 weeks of being apart he lets someone else come into the picture!
xoxo!
2006-09-20 04:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by Jasmine M 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he's not serious for you. Why did you 2 break it off in the beginning. It's usually best to stay broken up instead of getting back together. You might as well save the trouble and heartbreak down the road and break up permanently. If you 2 really cared for each other you would not have broke up in the first place.
2006-09-20 04:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by ladida 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're a typical woman. All he wanted was a piece of *** and it had nothing to do with emotions. As humans we are all animals with sexual urges. Both men and women want to get laid, it's just depends on the degree to which you deny that fact to yourself. If you said that you never looked at another guy and wonder how he kissed or think if he was cute or not then you're lying. As long as he didn't do anything with them then he didn't "cheat." So feeling betrayed if you trying to make youself a martyr for no reason.
2006-09-20 04:37:32 · answer #3 · answered by camus0281 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At least he told u... he trying to be honest... i guess that could be a good thing...
When u break up with someone that u like a lot, u cling to the 1st thing that comes along... it's a rebound thing. We all do it... girls and guys.
If u broke up with him, technically, he could sleep with the world and it would still be okay...
it hurts because u feel like his world should revolve around u... but reality is that it isnt. Chance are, you are not on the same page with him
if u in a relationship 4 a few months, then it will be easy 4 the guy to move on... they dont cling on... they accept and move on... thats how girls should be... we should quit holding on to the past and move on to the future. Its life... Once you accept it 4 what it is, it gets easier.
2006-09-20 04:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by shaniB 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he told you he loved you he lied because if he didnt it would have been longer for him to get over you but yeah it does depend on the time yall been together like how long where yall together? Me an dmy ex where together for 8 months and we broke up its been 2 months and we both dont have a girlfriend or boyfriend. I wonder y that is. I know he is not over me and i sure anit over him but yeah it depends on the time that yall we together .intimental together Hope this hepled.
2006-09-20 04:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by SiSi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on what your definition of "close" is and what his is really.
Guys don't seem to have any problem with chatting up other girls to get over someone. Heck they don't seems to have any problem hooking up with other girls to get over someone.
when you were broke up - he was a free agent - he could do what he wanted - he didn't (and shouldn't) have to report back to you what he did/thought/smelled/touched/licked/poked/fondeled/etc while you two were not together.
You need to decide if what you broke up over has been corrected or worked out and if it hasn't maybe you two are really better off appart.
2006-09-20 04:36:38 · answer #6 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men might take as long to 'get over' a relationship as women do, but they don't wait around while they're getting over it. They find themselves someone to make them feel better in the meantime. This is the way men are. The sooner you understand that, the better you'll be able to understand your relationships with them as time goes by.
2006-09-20 04:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
look,think about it. when something bad happens to you, you seek comfort somewhere. obviously, you hurt this boy, maybe nothing you did, but he was hurt so was you. what ever you did to take comfort obviously didnt work as and what ever he did to take comfort obviously didnt work either as you are both back together. break up to make up, its for fools yeah so dont make a habbit of it. you will lose respect for each other as the years go one or months whatever. always talk to each other, as soon as you stop telling eachother how you feel, thats when it goes down the pan. talking is the main ting. and if you dont trust him, leave him. it will only eat you up inside. trust me. i know. but goodluck anyway though.x
2006-09-20 04:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by london lady 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl leave him he been running game all alone if that was so he wouldn't be with nobody but you, did you say ya'll are back together that's crazy on your behalf you are allowing yourself to be hurt. Once again don't be a fool for love. You are allowing yourself to be put in a situation that may reoccur again. good luck
2006-09-20 04:37:31 · answer #9 · answered by sexychocolate 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to get over it, if you want to move on with your relationship. Trust him, or leave him, that is your choice. You have to learn to deal with the situation. Search your heart of making the right decision.
2006-09-20 04:51:05 · answer #10 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋