I feel like life has fallin apart for me, My 11 year old son I just found out has been shopping lifting and also stealing food in line at the cafeteria that isnt paid for and he looks me dead in the eye and lies to me about it all but being a parent I found out through his youngest brother he's been stealing and his school notified me about the food situation, I just found out my grandfather who has raised me since I was little (he is 80yrs old) is ill, Im failing my classes in college because of all going on, and my fiance thinks Im wonder women that I can work my 40hr a week job and also do things for his company and if I forget he yells at me. Im dealing with so much right now that I dont know how to cope and feel as if Im going to have a breakdown what should I do? I cant even remember the last time I smiled.
2006-09-20 04:10:32 · 6 answers · asked by italianprincess_fl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
baby girl, one at a time. it's just too many things going on. it sounds like you're a strong women. and you know the solution to each of the problem you have. one at a time baby girl. one at a time.
2006-09-20 04:17:21 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun...count to 100. You need to take time for yourself. First, take time from school. Your son might be doing this since your so scheduled and hes rebelling out. Your kids are #1. You need them to and dont need to feel the guilt of not having some one on one time for them. This boyfriend needs to help you out not the other way around. I have a 10 yr old and its a tough age. Be there for them and fix this problem now. Its not that big of an issue, hes testing his limits. The bf can hire someone. You need your job. Most important to keep your head and to function properly is you need to make time for yourself. Sit down and reorganize your life right now. You need a night out w/girlfriends to talk and unwhine. Do that for yourself atleast once a month. Do something special w/the kids w/o the bf. Make them feel important and that they are #1 in your life. You have alot on your plate and my hats off to you.
2006-09-20 11:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your hands up in the air and ask the lord to help you . To lift some of that wait off you shoulder.Sit down and talk to your fiance about it. If you can not have open communication with him now, what is going to happen to you two after you are married.
2006-09-20 11:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to pray about this and talk to you fiance about the situation let him know how you feel about what he is doing and if he is not the father of your boys he is still suppose to be a role model an at times like this is when they need him the most, its only so much on can do, so you do what you can and let god do the rest......................................
I'll pray for you and your family.
2006-09-20 11:32:23 · answer #4 · answered by alh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I think your fiance needs to help and support you. If he can't then pack up. Sounds like hes more of prob thank u think
2006-09-20 11:15:01 · answer #5 · answered by for_runner0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-21 23:36:57 · answer #6 · answered by marketingexpert 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋